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So as most of you are aware, for those of us who wear chastity cages, there are special months.  Likely the biggest of these is L’October.  As I’ve been caged for most of the past 7-8 years, it may come as a surprise that last year was my first actual L’October.  I was caged for every minute of the month.  This year, over the past 2-3 months, my Queen has had me caged most days but has had me free during sleep.  Wednesday Sept. 21st, the cage went on as usual, but when I went to go to bed, the key was nowhere to be found.  So I’ve been caged 24/7 since then and will be at least until the end of this month.  This really means I won’t have the cage off until Nov 1st at bed-time–if she decides.  lol

I’m fortunate that I have such a good cage.  The Mature Metal Jailbird is custom fit and I wear it problem free.  Further it’s open type design allows for very good hygiene.  Over the years I’ve tried other cages and have determined that tube style cages are just not for me.  They begin to reek within a couple of days so they must be removed for a full cleaning.  The Jailbird allows easy cleaning of Angus with every shower.  I’m even pretty good at shaving with it on.  There is a small area around the ring that I can’t access with the cage on, but the hair there is limited anyways.

I’m excited to be doing L’October again–even more excited as it was my Queen’s idea.  The thought of pleasing her sexually while caged is exciting too!  So I’m looking forward to this month of adventures.

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It’s really amazing how good life can be with the right partner! To find my Queen took a large number of years.  One failed marriage before I found her and then a ray of light!  She also had a failed marriage–but her ex is a narcissitic jerk!  He can be charming in the short term, but eventually his true colours will show.  Still this post is not about either her ex nor mine.  (Mine is a good woman who just was wrong for me)

My Queen and I met through an on-line dating app.  She actually messaged me first.  I responded and within a day or two, we had spoken on the phone.  We spoke for a long time! lol  Hours actually.  And we spoke every night for 5 straight nights.  I was sleeping only about 2 hours a day.  Finally (in truth less than a week after connecting), we agreed to meet at a neutral spot.  So we picked a restaurant/bar about halfway between our homes and met in person.  We arrived about 8pm and then closed the place.  Even then we sat in her car for an additional couple of hours before reluctantly making our own ways home.  I told a good friend the very next day that I had found the person I was going to marry.

Since that moment, we have been almost inseparable.  We laugh together and are totally open with each other.  I told her very soon in the relationship that I liked to be dommed as I was submissive.  She was willing to try domming me and things went from there.  We have lived out some of our fantasies and others may yet come to fruition.  About 8 years ago I discovered male chastity cages. I purchased one and then ordered a custom made one.  About 7 years ago I opened up to my Queen about this new kink.  She agreed to try it.  Perhaps 5-6 years ago we officially made it an FLR relationship.  However it has only been this year that I think we are really moving to a totally 365/24/7 total power exchange.  And I’m loving it!  I just enjoy serving and pleasing her so much!  My orgasms aren’t as important to me as hers…

Cleaning the fish tank for my Queen.

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So I’m back at work after a lovely holiday with my Queen.  We spent about 5 days visiting family in a nearby city before hopping on a plane and heading down to Puerto Vallarta.  It was heavenly to have a week where it was just the two of us!  Whenever we get time like this its as if we’re on our honeymoon all over again.  The resort was nice, but it was the time alone that we treasured.  From an orgasm perspective it was good (but not great) for my Queen.  She had 13 in the week.  I blew it on the first day and had a ruined orgasm.  It was the first I had had since June 2nd.  However I managed to get through the rest of the week orgasm free.  I did ask my Queen if I could cum a few times and she denied me permission.  We tanned, played cards, talked, made love, and slept without alarm clocks.  I read to her every day and we reconnected in only the best of ways.  A new rule was instituted–I had to be naked in the room.  So when we returned to the room the first thing I had to do was to strip down.  And when we were leaving, the last thing I had to do was get dressed. I served my Queen with massages, and other mundane tasks as she requested.  So I ironed for her and generally treated her as the Queen she is.

Ironing for my Queen
Carefully aligning the material

It was a wonderful vacation!  I look forward to retirement when I hope to be able to serve her full time without a job interfering in my tasks.  Still when we get physical is the most favourite thing for me! Giving my Queen orgasms thrills and pleases me.  I almost feel like I’m basking in her pleasure along with her.  Often once she is satiated, she will bring me to the absolute edge before we stop.  She likes me to be anxious to cum–very anxious!  lol

My Queen riding Angus
After she was satisfied, my Queen teases Angus just about to the end…

 

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Since we decided to try and follow Ms. Rika’s methodology, I have been striving to serve my Queen and make her life easier!  But we’ve gone through some changes over these months.  At first I was caged without respite 24/7.  Then she decided I wasn’t to be caged anymore.  This resulted in me going free for about 6-8 weeks.  This was weird to me as I had been caged for so long.  It was weird to be able to use a urinal at work…lol  However about 3 weeks ago, she decided that during the day I would be caged and also would wear the zapper.  At night I would remove both for sleep.  Then last week, she had me stay caged for 5 days straight even when sleeping.  I’ve slept in the cage for about 7 years, so that is nothing for me, but it marked a change in her desires.  I don’t ask about the cage at all.  I just have decided to comply with all her wishes.  Serving her is not about me!

For those that are unaware, the zapper is a small dog collar that sends an electric shock.  This shock can be set at different intensities.  When wrapped around the scrotum, it sends a distinct message to me as quickly as she can press a button on the remote.  In other words, regardless of what I am doing or where I am in the house, she can “call” me effortlessly at the push of a button.  I have learned to quickly respond to her “query”… lol   The maximum shock is definitely something that gets my attention!

These pictures are of Angus caged and set up to be zapped whenever my Queen wishes.  For the foreseeable future, this is how I will be daily.

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Living in Canada, we have one of the great countries of the world with many wonderful things.  However yesterday it became apparent once again how dependent we all are on our technology.  One of the largest providers of internet services in Canada lost service yesterday.  Rumours that I’ve heard say the cause was a Tornado thousands of miles away from us and yet it effected every Canadian.  This company controls/runs the debit for the whole country.  So at the moment, no one in Canada can use a debit machine–credit or cash only!  And if the company is your provider, then you have no phone service nor internet.  Somehow I believe there should be a much better backup system.  My father panicked yesterday when he had no television and phone.  Those are his lifelines and as he’s almost completely immobile, he relies on them for contact with the outside world and also for entertainment.  A media release last night suggested that they were working feverishly to correct the problem… duh… You think???  No time frame for repairs were given.

On the chastity front I think I’m approaching almost 2 months cage free.  My Queen has decided she prefers easy access.  I kind of miss it–but if I serve her, then I need to do what she wants.  This morning she slept in.  Like the good slave I am, I merely lay beside her without disturbing her.  At one point she threw off the covers.

It was all I could do to leave her alone… lol