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So imagine my surprise when I discovered a file with some of my previous blog’s posts stored within it.  So I hope to eventually repost them here–though I no longer have the artwork in most cases.  This post was originally published on June 9, 2021 and was the last post prior to my original blog being erased.  So perhaps it was the straw that broke the camel’s back…lol

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This post is not suitable for work!  It deals with golden showers.

I’m in a great relationship.  I love my Queen and she loves me.  We laugh, have fun together and support each other.  The sex we have is volcanic.  In my first marriage, there were things I never told my wife.  After all, if simple and what I consider small kinks are rejected out of hand, bringing up more extreme kinks is not going to happen.

So I decided to be up front when I started dating after my first wife and I split up.  I wanted to make sure that whomever I ended up with was compatible sexually with me.

I therefore broached some uncomfortable subjects with my Queen very early on–some on our first date even!  She was receptive and didn’t make me feel stupid or freakish.  But I still didn’t tell her everything.

After we had been dating for a while–maybe 6 months–I took the plunge and told her about needing to be dominated.  She is a very strong woman who is dominant in many aspects of her life so she agreed to try it.  She was good at it, though she found it was work to stay in character.  She doesn’t like to treat me harshly or firmly, but she has improved greatly in this.  We tended to do occasional weekends where I was her slave or sometimes evenings after the kids were in bed.  It wasn’t all the time.

Wanting to learn more, she contacted a pro-domme in the city and arranged a two hour session for the two of us.  It was to be part of my birthday present.  She would learn from the domme and I would be the slave of both of them.  It was an exciting evening and I enjoyed it immensely.  Life was good and kept getting better but I still hadn’t told her of one of my kinks.

Finally one night while she was in dominatrix mode, I told her my desires.  I liked to be peed on–and I liked it on my face!  I’m not sure if I told her I liked to drink it at that point.  Maybe 0r maybe not!  It would become clear soon afterwards anyways.  Telling her this was very difficult for me.  I had never been more open with anyone and yet this felt shameful to me!  However she still didn’t make be feel awful.  She remained open and we discussed it.

She agreed to give it a try.  In her home (we each had our own homes at this point), she had a large oversized jacuzzi tub.  It was longer, wider, and deeper than a conventional tub.  As she was dominating me, I was already naked.  And as she drinks litres of water every day, it wouldn’t be long before she needed to pee.  A short while later she told me to go and get into the tub.  She followed me into the room.  “So how do we go about this?” she asked.  She climbed into the tub as well and after trying out several positions, we figured out one that would work.  I was kneeling between her thighs and was in perfect position to please her orally.

Now there is such a thing as bein “pee shy”.  Despite my Queen needing to go very badly, it wasn’t happening.  She laughed and seemed embarrassed.  I told her it would happen and not to worry.  I suggested she turn on the sink tap–that maybe the sound of running water might help her let go.  After a little while, she started to dribble and I feverishly started to lap at her pussy drinking her at the same time.  She started to relax and suddenly I was immersed in a deluge of golden liquid.  I drank and kept licking and teasing her.  She was excited and came just as she finished peeing!  It was a very satisfying experience for the both of us.

Giving me golden showers became something that happened regularly!  The pee shyness did not return.  We started doing it in a variety of ways.  Sometimes I get to drink from the source.  Sometimes she pees into a glass and I drink it.  Once at a fet night, she took a beer cup into the washroom, filled it, and gave it to me on exiting!  I walked around that event as her slave while drinking her urine.

My Queen peeing with her funnel

The original post had a short video at this point.  I no longer have that video–and I haven’t figured out how to include videos on this blog anyways… One of these days! lol

I’m still working on my Femdom Wedding post and I have decided to try and include more detail in my posts here.  A reader suggested to me that she appreciates details and that many of my posts are lacking them.  Looking at my posts from my first blog and comparing them to the ones I have found, I have to agree.

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The owner of the photograph in my featured image is Philippe Hickx (from Flickr).  I may have to take it down if he requests I do so.

So I am an exhibitionist.  When I was younger I modelled for art classes.  I actually modelled for over 20 years, but haven’t done any modeling now since around 2017.  One of the last times I modeled, I forgot I was caged and was well on my way to the site before I realized I was still wearing it.  So I had to turn around and go back home to remove the cage and this made me late for the class.  However I didn’t think they would have appreciated my being caged.  Thankfully my Queen let me remove the cage!  My Queen and I have gone to nudist clubs and Fet nights where clothing was optional.  I do find it exciting to be nude in public.  My Queen was seldom naked–but if I had the chance, I was.  lol  Relatively early in our relationship, I lost a bet to my Queen and had to strip at a ladies night at a strip club.  It was amateur night.  I actually had to pay the DJ to strip that night.  lol  That was an unknown when I made the commitment.  The whole experience was both exciting and nerve wracking!  But I did it.  Some of the women actually flashed me while I was stripping too.  So that was an added bonus!

I’m not sure why I have this kink.  But I’ve had it all my life as I can remember things from when I was 5 and 6 years old.  lol

Curtsying to my Queen

Above I’m in costume.  This is how my Queen wants me to be when we’re alone.  I actually have several aprons to wear as she decides.  Perhaps some day she will tell some of her closest friends and I’ll be asked to dress this way in front of them.  That will be a big high for me!

I’m working on organizing a femdom wedding.  We are going to renew our vows and I’ve found a cool place and person to conduct this wedding in Vegas.  I will be posting more about this in the near future.

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Sometimes we just have to get away.  So we booked a hotel room and travelled to a nearby city to see a play.  The beauty of this is that we leave all kids behind… Despite it being just an overnight trip, we had some high quality time together.  We left just after noon and had an early dinner at an excellent steak house.  Because we were going to be having a metal detector wanded over us and my queen wanted easy access to Angus, she removed my cage before we left. We checked into our hotel which was surprisingly nice and went to the theatre.  We enjoyed the performance before returning to the hotel where we relaxed together before going to sleep.  As I kissed my Queen good night, she decided she wanted an orgasm.  Using my mouth and a vibrator, my Queen had a lovely orgasm and we went to sleep.  In the morning, we played some more and my Queen had another three orgasms.  It was a great time and we both had a fabulous time.  No orgasms for me, but I’m content!

Regardless of who you are, it is always important to make time for each other.  These mini “vacations” help to break things up and keep life interesting and full.  I hope to regularly schedule something similar until we can actually get away for an extended period of time.

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So one of the things I’ve been doing for years is keeping track of orgasms both my Queen and I have.  It’s a lot more work to tally up my Queen’s than mine though! lol  We started chastity in the fall of 2014.  In our first efforts, my Queen was reluctant to deny me.  She couldn’t understand how much more excited I was about her pleasure than my own.  So our first try a this was successful but only lasting 2.5 months.  In that time, my Queen had 61 orgasms while I had 10 and 2 more that were ruined.  If you actually look at that time frame, my Queen was pretty good for much of the time, but as we approached the end of our agreement, she allowed me or had me cum numerous times which took my totals up to the stratospheric number of 10!  lol

After allowing a little time to think about how things went, we continued our journey and my Queen gradually began to get good at denial.  She likes to tease me until I’m close to popping off and then shutting things down.  In the decade since then, I have gone 485 days and another time 526 days between orgasms!  The 526 days is my record though for both of those periods I didn’t even have a ruined orgasm!  So the total numbers since we started this journey are 1666 orgasms for my Queen and 51 for me with an additional 10 ruined orgasms.  When you consider that 10 of mine and 2 of the ruined ones fell in the first 2.5 months, you’ll realize how seldom I actually orgasm.

In 2023 our numbers break down as follows:  My Queen had 119 orgasms while I had 3 plus 4 ruined.  My Queen is funny in that she will deny me for months and then decide I’m to cum 2-3 times in a short period of time.  For instance when I went the 526 days, she decided I would orgasm  and then had me orgasm 3 more times that month.  So I went a year and a half without an orgasm only to cum 4 times in one month–or perhaps I should say only to feed 4 times in one month!  She is very good at making sure I clean my messes–seems to turn her on a little!  The beauty of it is that anything that turns her on also turns me on.  It’s a win win!

Masturbation just isn’t part of my life anymore!

Life has changed for me in a big way!  I used to masturbate daily or even more frequently…  And now, I only masturbate if told to–and only if my Queen removes my cage.  I guess I have evolved.  But the thing is, I like being horny and I love giving my Queen pleasure!  For me that’s what it’s all about!

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So at this point in time, I have been caged for years.  It is second nature to me now–I https://collaredmichael.com/wp-admin/post-new.phpactually don’t feel right without the cage.  However it was only about 9-10 years ago that I actually became aware of cock cages.  My Queen and I were walking together in a local sex shop (Stag Shop) and I noticed this particular cock cage.  Neither of us had ever seen one before and while my Queen wasn’t particularly taken with it, it immediately pushed all my submissive buttons.  Later I went back by myself and purchased it.  To be honest, I got lucky.  The cage actually fit pretty well.  I wore it off and on for about 6 months before I let my Queen discover it on me.  We went that way for quite a while with me wearing the cage for 2-5 days at a time.  Over time my Queen became more accustomed to the idea and we finally had a big discussion about the cage and my wearing it on a regular basis.  By this time, I had already bought a custom Jailbird by Mature Metal. However that is another story…

 

My first cage. It came with a hinged ring and was fortunately not a tube style design.

This is the only cage I’ve owned with a hinged ring.  I had to cut a piece of leather to put under the ring where the lock attaches.  This was to prevent pinching which I will admit to being quite unpleasant.  However once I put the leather there, the problem went away.  Like most cage designs where there are lots of openings, hygiene was easy to manage with this cage.  Further, with the sizing rings from Mature Metal and their measurement instructions this cage helped me get the perfect sized Jailbird.

What this cage taught me was how much I liked metal cages.  It taught me that open design cages could be easily cleaned as could the penis inside of them.  It also taught me that hinged rings were likely not the best way to go.  So for the last 8-9 years, I’ve been caged in my Jailbird almost exclusively.  I have tried other cages for short periods since then, but my Jailbird has been my cage of choice.  I will try and review the other cages I’ve used in upcoming posts.

The pinch point in this cage was the spot where the lock attached.

On another note, I  discovered Krystine”s FLR Podcast shortly before my first blog was terminated.  In fact I had agreed to be a guest on her blog.  Then I lost my blog and that plan seemed to evaporate.  Recently I rediscovered her blog and have been listening to it from the first episode.  I’m now into the second year.  Krystine is a dominant woman whose husband wears a cage and is submissive to her.  This is one of the podcasts I listen to regularly and I recommend it to you.  I use Spotify to listen though I’m certain other podcast sevices will also carry it.  Give Krystine a listen!