So recently, my Queen competed in her first ever body building competition.  She did amazingly well.  I’m so proud of her.  She was the oldest competitor and she was not out of place!  The effort and discipline to compete in these events is really difficult to maintain.  The cost to compete is also amazing…lol

Hours before the show–Front view
Rear view just prior to going downstairs for the show.


Now that we are through one show though, we are aware of the ins-and-outs.  For instance all competitors get a spray tan.  For females, this is received in the nude and they don’t miss a spot.  The original tan is done the day before the show, and then on the day of the show, they strip down again and get touch-ups so that the tan is perfect.  Hair and make-up are done.  The competition suit is put on along with the CFM shoes, and the competition happens.  Because the competition suit is so small, my Queen had to completely shave her pubic area!  This is something that I love and so the competition is the gift that keeps on giving!  My Queen entered two different classes in the show.  She was in the 35+ and also the 45+ class.  She won 4th place in the 35+ division and 5th place in the 45+ division.  These were great results for a woman in her late 50’s doing her first competition.


Proof positive that they don’t miss a spot with the spray on tan!

Leaving the show behind, we finished L’October on Nov. 14th.  We actually started it in August… so it was a long month! lol  However my Queen had me out of the cage on Nov. 15th. She has indicated to me that we might be doing Deny December, so Christmas might be a caged event!  We’ve had sex numerous times–obviously many times I’ve been caged over the past 80 or so days…   Strangely, that makes me even hotter.  I really enjoy pleasing my Queen–there isn’t really anything I enjoy more than that.  The concept of wearing my cage while I’m pleasing her really makes it all about her and that is again a major turn on for me!


So my Queen and I have been on a bit of a fitness journey that has escalated in the past 6 months.   She is preparing for her first ever body-building show.  I am trying to get into the type of condition that might allow me to compete in such a show.  I am a long ways away from competition–a very long ways…  However my Queen is rounding into form nicely.  We’re about 4 weeks away from her show.  I will post pics once we get to that position.  I seem to take a very long time to build muscle.  We both are at the gym daily, and change is happening for me too, but my changes are moving much more slowly than hers.  Regardless, we are both progressing.

It’s L’October again.  I have been caged 24/7 since sometime in July.  The last several times we’ve had sex, I’ve been caged–and a couple of times I’ve been dressed.  This is a cool development.  Being used for her pleasure without getting any physical pleasure myself is a long held fantasy of mine.  Indeed the last time I had an orgasm was on Aug 6th–I believe I was still caged for that one.  It has become evident that I can orgasm in the cage.  I can’t achieve that myself, but with my Queen’s help I can get there.  The excitement of pleasing her helps greatly on that front.   So it will be interesting to see how long I remain caged.  I was out briefly on Aug 28th as I had an appointment with my urologist.  Didn’t want to involve him in my kink.  We’ve never done the full month of November or December, but perhaps this year will be different.

A by-product of training for her first show is the fatigue.  My Queen is at the gym twice a day everyday.  She does about 2 hours cardio and then later goes back to do her weights.  With her job she is always on the go.  So her libido has been effected and she isn’t often horny.  With the added fact that we have two kids back with us for a while, there isn’t a lot of opportunity for sex. So the frequency of our sexual lives has diminished as we approach her show.  A sad fact, but understandable.  I am doing almost all household chores both inside and out.  This frees her to do her thing.

A female body builder courtesy of Pinterest. Not my Queen but beautiful nonetheless.

Last note:  Ms. Rika’s husband and slave has written a new book.  It’s written from his perspective as a submissive male and slave to Ms Rika.  I think it will be a fascinating read.  It is available from several vendors, and is called “At Rika’s Whim”

So my L’October was longer than most.  The cage went on Sept. 21st and didn’t come off until the evening of Nov. 1st.  42 days or thereabouts.  My Queen was teasing me by making other lock up months.  She doesn’t read any chastity stuff, so has no knowledge of the other “official” chastity months… lol  So she came up with No-release November, Deny December, Jailed for January, Frozen February, May not release March…  She actually went into the summer with her ideas, but I can’t recall them now.

We had sex many times over those 42 days. My queen had 26 orgasms while I had none.  Angus was cramped each and every time, but that just adds to the fun.  I used my mouth, fingers, and toys to pleasure her and I had such fun doing it.  So while I’ve been caged since 2015, this was only the second time I’ve done L’October.  The Jailbird cage allows great personal hygiene.  Shaving is pretty easy too–there is a small amount of hair I can’t really get at with the cage on, but overall, I can be quite neat.  It seems I am now back to wearing the cage daily but sleeping cageless.  My Queen does like to have easy access to Angus when we’re in bed.

So I’ve been caged 24/7 since September 21.  The beauty of a Jailbird cage (by Mature Metal) is how easy it is to maintain personal hygiene and also how comfortable it can be.  We’ve found some time alone quite a bit this month, but Angus has not penetrated Kitty once! lol  Instead I’ve used my mouth, fingers and various toys.  My Queen has had ten-eleven orgasms so far and I’ve had none.  But I’ve gotten great pleasure from giving them to her.  She did say that I would receive a blowjob at the end of the month…  That will likely lead to an orgasm for me–and then her feeding me my cum with her mouth…  But we’ll see.  Currently it’s 46 days since my last orgasm which was an accident while we were in Mexico… That orgasm was also ruined, but still occurred.

My Very Sexy Queen

I have to say that Angus gets quite cramped when my Queen decides to tease me–visually or otherwise! This picture is from last weekend.  Wearing some crotchless panties and my shirt, I was very much enticed!


So as most of you are aware, for those of us who wear chastity cages, there are special months.  Likely the biggest of these is L’October.  As I’ve been caged for most of the past 7-8 years, it may come as a surprise that last year was my first actual L’October.  I was caged for every minute of the month.  This year, over the past 2-3 months, my Queen has had me caged most days but has had me free during sleep.  Wednesday Sept. 21st, the cage went on as usual, but when I went to go to bed, the key was nowhere to be found.  So I’ve been caged 24/7 since then and will be at least until the end of this month.  This really means I won’t have the cage off until Nov 1st at bed-time–if she decides.  lol

I’m fortunate that I have such a good cage.  The Mature Metal Jailbird is custom fit and I wear it problem free.  Further it’s open type design allows for very good hygiene.  Over the years I’ve tried other cages and have determined that tube style cages are just not for me.  They begin to reek within a couple of days so they must be removed for a full cleaning.  The Jailbird allows easy cleaning of Angus with every shower.  I’m even pretty good at shaving with it on.  There is a small area around the ring that I can’t access with the cage on, but the hair there is limited anyways.

I’m excited to be doing L’October again–even more excited as it was my Queen’s idea.  The thought of pleasing her sexually while caged is exciting too!  So I’m looking forward to this month of adventures.