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So my Queen and I have been on a bit of a fitness journey that has escalated in the past 6 months.   She is preparing for her first ever body-building show.  I am trying to get into the type of condition that might allow me to compete in such a show.  I am a long ways away from competition–a very long ways…  However my Queen is rounding into form nicely.  We’re about 4 weeks away from her show.  I will post pics once we get to that position.  I seem to take a very long time to build muscle.  We both are at the gym daily, and change is happening for me too, but my changes are moving much more slowly than hers.  Regardless, we are both progressing.

It’s L’October again.  I have been caged 24/7 since sometime in July.  The last several times we’ve had sex, I’ve been caged–and a couple of times I’ve been dressed.  This is a cool development.  Being used for her pleasure without getting any physical pleasure myself is a long held fantasy of mine.  Indeed the last time I had an orgasm was on Aug 6th–I believe I was still caged for that one.  It has become evident that I can orgasm in the cage.  I can’t achieve that myself, but with my Queen’s help I can get there.  The excitement of pleasing her helps greatly on that front.   So it will be interesting to see how long I remain caged.  I was out briefly on Aug 28th as I had an appointment with my urologist.  Didn’t want to involve him in my kink.  We’ve never done the full month of November or December, but perhaps this year will be different.

A by-product of training for her first show is the fatigue.  My Queen is at the gym twice a day everyday.  She does about 2 hours cardio and then later goes back to do her weights.  With her job she is always on the go.  So her libido has been effected and she isn’t often horny.  With the added fact that we have two kids back with us for a while, there isn’t a lot of opportunity for sex. So the frequency of our sexual lives has diminished as we approach her show.  A sad fact, but understandable.  I am doing almost all household chores both inside and out.  This frees her to do her thing.

A female body builder courtesy of Pinterest. Not my Queen but beautiful nonetheless.

Last note:  Ms. Rika’s husband and slave has written a new book.  It’s written from his perspective as a submissive male and slave to Ms Rika.  I think it will be a fascinating read.  It is available from several vendors, and is called “At Rika’s Whim”

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So at this point in time, I can say that without question my marriage to my Queen has never been better.  We have always had a good marriage, but with the discovery of Ms. Rika’s books, we’ve progressed and have evolved.  In fact, I have been uncaged for the last two or three weeks.  After so many years of being caged almost constantly, that is a big change.  I admit to being unused to using the urinals at work…lol  I’m not sure what will become of the cage.  I obviously found sleeping and living in it easy to do, but my Queen has always disliked it.  Over the years her reasons for allowing/making me stay caged have changed and fluctuated, but with our discussions on me serving her, it became clear that my wearing a cage was serving me more than her.  She may at times have me wear it, but she likes the easy access that a cage prohibits.  So we will see where this goes.

Each week I read to my Queen–we have been working our way through Ms. Rika’s books and have almost finished the second book.  When I read to her, we often pause and discuss things that we have read.  We also evaluate how the proceeding week has gone.  I’ve always done a lot of stuff around the house, but I’m doing more now.  My Queen is actually doing less and relaxing more.  Her guilt over this still exists, but is getting better.

While not my Queen, the logo is something I believe! lol This shirt is available from Etsy store “611 Clothing Co” and the pic is taken from there.

 

I do hope that in time, she will begin to expect my service without the guilt.  I know that I feel good when she can relax and I ease her daily load.

Despite not being caged, I’m not orgasming a lot.  I’m still not allowed to masturbate and can only cum when given permission. At the moment only one child is around the home, so in the next month or so, we should have quality time together on a regular basis.  For July, we will have two kids around…

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It’s been a good few weeks.  Shortly after my last post, I had some time off, so was more relaxed and more available to serve my Queen.  Unfortunately, two of our adult kids were around almost non-stop.  Still despite their presence, on a few mornings I was able to pleasure my Queen orally before we got up.  On at least one of those mornings, she was able to have 3 orgasms.  This always makes me so happy.  I’m not sure why, but I do get more pleasure out of giving her pleasure than taking it myself.  Regardless, I remained caged.  Things just developed while we were in bed.  I started to gently caress her as she woke.  I paid attention to all of her, not really honing in on her secret spots…  After a while, she started to feel frisky, and pushed my head down to her pussy.  This is one of my favourite things to do, so I dove in with gusto.  After three orgasms, she was sated, and we stopped.  Angus was nicely cramped in his cage.

On a few other occasions, she called me into the bathroom after she had finished peeing to serve as her TP.  And on at least three of those occasions, she had an orgasm.  Quick and simple, but fun for the both of us.  In addition, over the past month, we’ve managed to find some time without children in the house.  This allowed some quality time and my Queen has had an orgasm feast… (many orgasms one after the other…)  I also have had a couple of orgasms.  My Queen decided she wanted me to eat a salad and gave me an orgasm to provide the dressing.  This has now happened twice in the past 2-3 months…  So I have also had a couple of orgasms this year–maybe three?  I should go and check my records…

Our FLR is getting better.  I continue to read Ms. Rika’s second book to my Queen.  We try and find some alone time for this each week.  It’s not always easy, but we manage most weeks.  We are both loving this.  Ms. Rika presents info in a well thought out and very complete manner.  We always have good talks whenever we read together.  These talks help to bring us even more closely together and strengthen our FLR.  We have been trying to find and deal with any FLR relationship problems quickly.  These talks help with that.  For the most part, we have no real problems.  My Queen is still trying not to feel guilty, but has indicated that she is enjoying how things are going.  This is a key for me!

 

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Our FLR is evolving.  With the help of Ms. Rika and her books, my Queen and I have been adjusting our relationship and we are both enjoying it.  I honestly love serving her.  Angus hardens as much as he can in his cage and I get a sense of accomplishment when she is obviously happy with what I’ve done for her.  I try and anticipate her needs.  I try and get her to relax–this isn’t easy, because she is a driven person and she feels guilt over everything that I am doing.  This is something that we’re working on–that loss of guilt.  I remember a passage in Uniquely Us that covered entitlement and guilt well–we’ve just started to read this book, so I’m hoping that passage will help my Queen.  Now I’ve been caged for a long time.  We started with a cage in 2014, and then tried it more extensively in 2015.  Since late 2015 or early 2016 I’ve been caged virtually every day.  However for most of that time, my Queen was having me be caged because I felt a need to do it.  At least that’s what I think.  She made me cage Angus for me.  But curiously, her feelings and thinking has changed.  We had a conversation recently where she told me frankly that she now sees the need to cage me.  She now wants me caged!  It was a wonderful moment for me.  However, I am now almost never out of the cage! lol   Not a bad thing, but a definite difference.  The last two times we played together, I remained caged.  My Queen’s comment to me was, “I now realize that I don’t need to uncage you to enjoy myself.” This is also a significant change, and one I embrace.  When we have sex, I want it to be all about her!  I enjoy feeling horny, and immensely enjoy giving her pleasure.  It leaves me feeling on a high for hours afterwards.  So our relationship is growing and it’s in a direction I am very happy to see.  I love my Queen passionately and serving her is just the icing on the cake.

Now the shrinkage portion of the title…  Logically, I can’t see cage wearing actually causing a man’s penis to shrink in size.  However, I believe that I’ve shrunk a bit.  My erections seem a little smaller than they used to be…  I don’t have a ruler handy when I am uncaged, and I’m not uncaged often, so this is a subjective observation.  And even if it were true, I wouldn’t change a thing.  But it is my thinking…  Of course I’ve been wrong before and will be again! lol

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I can’t believe it’s been a month since I last posted.  I must get better at this.  In some ways it’s because I’m frustrated with fixing this blog.  Caged Lion has offered to help, and I should take him up on that soon.  He is very good with technical things (and has a great blog–Male Chastity Journal–I recommend it highly).

I am very excited by recent changes in our relationship.  As mentioned earlier, I discovered Ms. Rika’s books.  I’ve read 2.5 of them so far.  More importantly, I’ve read the first one to my Queen.  Reading that book became a highlight of our week and this week we’ll start another of her books.  We’ve had some profound discussions as a result of our reading together.  But best of all, we are even more fully invested in our FLR.  My Queen found Ms. Rika’s explanations so much better than mine and I admitted to making mistakes along the way.  While I was always about pleasing my Queen, something has switched in my brain.  And my Queen is learning to embrace her dominance over me.  She still has guilt, but whenever she checks, Angus is hard in his cage.  That and my obvious love of pleasing her is helping her get over her guilt of demanding things from me.

She has even embraced the cage.  This sounds funny for a guy who has been caged for 6-7 years, but I think for most of that time, she was accepting the cage in deference to me.  Now she sees the value of the cage and has come to like it on me.  This is a huge switch.  Her “intent” is different.

I’ve had one orgasm this year.  My Queen decided I needed some salad dressing on my salad and told me to masturbate into my food.  So on Jan. 29th, I came onto my salad before cleaning my plate.  It actually was the first time I had masturbated in years.  Of course this was under her watchful eye! lol    One of our discussions centered on requiring me to clean up any cum I produced.  We discussed how this is exciting to me up until I actually cum.  Afterwards this is more difficult for me and she decided she will be much more stringent in making sure I do a good clean up job now.  So once the salad was finished, I had to lick the plate clean!

She also used the humbler on me a week ago.  Truthfully, she has done a few things to keep me on my toes.  Some have been very surprising.  Last Sunday, she wanted some attention and desired an orgasm, but she decided to keep me caged.  Almost always, she will remove the cage when we play.  However on Sunday she kept me caged and I used my mouth, toys and fingers to bring her to three orgasms.  I loved it!!  I admit that Angus was trying to push through the bars of the cage, but the jailbird is far too strong!  lol   It was only later that she removed the cage–and that was so she could put the humbler on me.

I’ll try and be more active on here and let you know what’s happening.  Stay well!