So one of the things I’ve been doing for years is keeping track of orgasms both my Queen and I have.  It’s a lot more work to tally up my Queen’s than mine though! lol  We started chastity in the fall of 2014.  In our first efforts, my Queen was reluctant to deny me.  She couldn’t understand how much more excited I was about her pleasure than my own.  So our first try a this was successful but only lasting 2.5 months.  In that time, my Queen had 61 orgasms while I had 10 and 2 more that were ruined.  If you actually look at that time frame, my Queen was pretty good for much of the time, but as we approached the end of our agreement, she allowed me or had me cum numerous times which took my totals up to the stratospheric number of 10!  lol

After allowing a little time to think about how things went, we continued our journey and my Queen gradually began to get good at denial.  She likes to tease me until I’m close to popping off and then shutting things down.  In the decade since then, I have gone 485 days and another time 526 days between orgasms!  The 526 days is my record though for both of those periods I didn’t even have a ruined orgasm!  So the total numbers since we started this journey are 1666 orgasms for my Queen and 51 for me with an additional 10 ruined orgasms.  When you consider that 10 of mine and 2 of the ruined ones fell in the first 2.5 months, you’ll realize how seldom I actually orgasm.

In 2023 our numbers break down as follows:  My Queen had 119 orgasms while I had 3 plus 4 ruined.  My Queen is funny in that she will deny me for months and then decide I’m to cum 2-3 times in a short period of time.  For instance when I went the 526 days, she decided I would orgasm  and then had me orgasm 3 more times that month.  So I went a year and a half without an orgasm only to cum 4 times in one month–or perhaps I should say only to feed 4 times in one month!  She is very good at making sure I clean my messes–seems to turn her on a little!  The beauty of it is that anything that turns her on also turns me on.  It’s a win win!

Masturbation just isn’t part of my life anymore!

Life has changed for me in a big way!  I used to masturbate daily or even more frequently…  And now, I only masturbate if told to–and only if my Queen removes my cage.  I guess I have evolved.  But the thing is, I like being horny and I love giving my Queen pleasure!  For me that’s what it’s all about!

Life slowly returns to normal after a death and ours is no exception.  Responsibilities must be met and physical attraction causes desires…  And trust me when I say that I am immensely physically attracted to my wife!  We are both working with coaches to improve our physiques.  In fact I just moved to a new and far better coach than I had before.  So this past week have been full of changes for me.  And I can see small changes today over where I was last week.  In addition to our training, we have set aside Sunday morning for some alone time.  Our son sleeps in Sundays which gives us a modicum of privacy.  That added to the fact that we have less responsibility on Sunday gives us freedom to laze away in bed.  So last Sunday we enjoyed each other.  I have been caged nonstop for most of March.  The past few times we’ve had sex, I’ve been caged.  I have enjoyed it immensely, but haven’t been able to erect and haven’t orgasmed myself.  Instead my pleasure has largely come from pleasing my Queen using my hands, mouth, vibrators, and dildos.  The last two times, I’ve worn a strap-on to penetrate her.

This is a huge turn-on for me, and I get hornier as a result.  Long time readers will remember how much I love that high level of horniness.  On Sunday, after we were finished, I asked my Queen if I could remove the cage for a moment to take a shot of Angus.  One of my readers (Georgia) had recently asked about a shot showing the marks on Angus after some excitement.  So when my Queen said yes, we took off the cage to take some shots.  Now Angus is not fully erect here, but you can clearly see the marks left by the cage after all the excitement of pleasing my Queen.    So this if for you Georgia!  lol

On the orgasm front, I haven’t had an orgasm in quite some time–and that’s ok.

From my Queen’s perspective
My view looking down from above

So the year has started well though we did have a wrinkle this past week.  However my Queen is averaging more than one orgasm a day so far and I’m loving it.  She has also given me 2 full orgasms and one ruined.  So I really have no idea how this year’s totals will be for me! lol  For both of my orgasms, I was restrained and on my back.  I was teased excessively and when I finally was allowed to cum, the orgasms were incredible.  For the second orgasm, my Queen wanted a drink and forced me to cum into her mouth.  Then she moved up my body and spit my cum into my mouth for me to drink and swallow.  I do find that hot, though after an orgasm the urge diminishes somewhat…lol  Still I did as she wanted.

My Queen’s oral ministrations

While she was sucking Angus, she was sitting on my face.  I was feverishly working on her pussy and she was having orgasm after orgasm…  And squirting like crazy.  I just kept drinking!  It was great!

Then last week I mentioned we were approaching International Chastity Month (January 14th-February 14th).  After laughing and suggesting I was making it up, she did a quick search and discovered “it” was a thing! lol  So I’ve been caged non-stop since the 14th and likely won’t be released for any time until February 15th.  Of course this is my Queen’s decision and a Lady always has the right to change her mind…  Maybe she’ll decide I go longer… maybe not!

The wrinkle we had this past week involved my son.  He was up North at a friend’s.  This friend has lost almost all of his friends due to his volatile temper.  From what I’ve heard, he may be bi-polar.  At any rate my son was visiting him for the weekend and on Sunday night they had been drinking a few beers.  Over the evening my son had had 3 tall boys.  Suddenly this friend (let’s call him Ted) got angry with my son.  Ted started to threaten him and was getting physical.  Though my son doesn’t drink and drive, he felt unsafe–particularly when Ted’s girlfriend started ramping Ted up and threatening my son too!  He decided to leave.  My son had another friend about 30 minutes away that he felt he could crash at.  As soon as he got out the door, Ted called the police and said there was a crazy drunk driver who had just driven past his house.  As “luck” would have it a patrol car was very near by and my son was pulled over less than two miles from Ted’s.  So we received calls in the middle of the night to come up and pick him up.  It has really caused a lot of stress.  And what’s worse is that my son left Ted’s so quickly we have to go back to get his stuff (if it’s still there).

So ever since we started this chastity/FLR journey, I’ve been keeping track of orgasm totals.  I keep them written down in a book and I also have an app that lets me know how long between orgasms we go.  My Queen seldom goes more than a week between orgasms–and often has one even more frequently.  I usually go much longer between my orgasms.  My record is over 500 days between orgasms… However for the past couple of years, my Queen hasn’t made me wait that long.  lol

In this past year, my Queen had 145 orgasms–a bit of a down year.  The Pandemic has had a negative effect as we have had more kids around.  I have only had 11, but 4 of those occurred in the past month–my Queen must have been feeling generous… lol

Further to that, I’ve actually had one orgasm already this year–on January 1st.  My Queen and I had some fun on that first day of the year.  She actually wore an item I had purchased for her two Christmas’ ago.  She hadn’t deigned to wear it before then…

When I gave my Queen the totals, her initial comment was, “Wow, that’s less than one every two days…!”  I suspect we’ll do much better this year! lol  On the other hand, I may not see 11 this year…









































It’s been a good few weeks.  Shortly after my last post, I had some time off, so was more relaxed and more available to serve my Queen.  Unfortunately, two of our adult kids were around almost non-stop.  Still despite their presence, on a few mornings I was able to pleasure my Queen orally before we got up.  On at least one of those mornings, she was able to have 3 orgasms.  This always makes me so happy.  I’m not sure why, but I do get more pleasure out of giving her pleasure than taking it myself.  Regardless, I remained caged.  Things just developed while we were in bed.  I started to gently caress her as she woke.  I paid attention to all of her, not really honing in on her secret spots…  After a while, she started to feel frisky, and pushed my head down to her pussy.  This is one of my favourite things to do, so I dove in with gusto.  After three orgasms, she was sated, and we stopped.  Angus was nicely cramped in his cage.

On a few other occasions, she called me into the bathroom after she had finished peeing to serve as her TP.  And on at least three of those occasions, she had an orgasm.  Quick and simple, but fun for the both of us.  In addition, over the past month, we’ve managed to find some time without children in the house.  This allowed some quality time and my Queen has had an orgasm feast… (many orgasms one after the other…)  I also have had a couple of orgasms.  My Queen decided she wanted me to eat a salad and gave me an orgasm to provide the dressing.  This has now happened twice in the past 2-3 months…  So I have also had a couple of orgasms this year–maybe three?  I should go and check my records…

Our FLR is getting better.  I continue to read Ms. Rika’s second book to my Queen.  We try and find some alone time for this each week.  It’s not always easy, but we manage most weeks.  We are both loving this.  Ms. Rika presents info in a well thought out and very complete manner.  We always have good talks whenever we read together.  These talks help to bring us even more closely together and strengthen our FLR.  We have been trying to find and deal with any FLR relationship problems quickly.  These talks help with that.  For the most part, we have no real problems.  My Queen is still trying not to feel guilty, but has indicated that she is enjoying how things are going.  This is a key for me!