About 5 years ago, my Queen had a hysterectomy.  Her uterus was prolapsed and this was the treatment advised.  For a few months penetrative sex was not to happen as healing had to take place.  Then the day arrived where we could resume intercourse–it didn’t work as it had before.  Angus is quite thick and my Queen experienced all kinds of difficulty/pain when I entered her.  We’ve tried all sorts of things and she has seen the surgeon at least twice since then.  She uses a hormonal ring to try and help things.  We use lots of lube, but to this day, she has great difficulty accepting Angus.  We do have a few toys though.  Some are even bigger than Angus (both length and girth) while others are not.  Recently we decided to try and do “penis practice” daily or every second day at worse.

Penis practice??  This occurs in the evening when my Queen is going to bed.  I warm up two toys by leaving them in a pot of hot water for some time.  Then I take the skinniest one and lube it up before inserting it slowly and carefully into my Queen.  I try and move it in for it’s whole length though that doesn’t always happen.  If it’s not to uncomfortable, I will slowly and gently move it in and out a bit.  After about 10 minutes, I remove it slowly and insert the thicker one.  Much the same happens after it is inside her.  If she is feeling good, when I remove that one, she will have me remove the cage and insert Angus.  So far this has only happened once, but I was able to move reasonably vigorously that time.  Positioning was limited, but she enjoyed herself.  When she decided she’d had enough, she had me remove Angus and stroke him to orgasm in my hand.  I then cleaned my hand with my mouth–I am supposed to always drink my cum after I orgasm.

These are the two Dildoes we are using to hopefully reopen my Queen. The one on the left is a little shorter and skinnier than the one on the right. Both are far skinnier than Angus


The hope is that this regularity and consistent penetration will one day allow my Queen to experience aggressive penetration as she once enjoyed.  We’re also trying to see a different gynocologist for a second opinion.  The doctor who did the original surgery says that there shouldn’t be any issues–but then he’s not hurting his wife any time he penetrates her.

A side effect of this is that often when we have sex, she leaves me caged.  After all, Angus won’t be getting any use.  This excites me tremendously.  I so love to give her orgasms and despite getting all excited not be permitted to cum myself.  So in a small way this is a plus.  I think that even if we have success with this method, my Queen will leave me caged far more often when we have sex–and that’s a good thing!

Preparing food for my Queen

One of my kinks is Clothed Female naked male (CFnm).  In fact my car license plate has this as part of it’s lettering.  lol  My Queen is of course aware of this and my exhibitionist tendencies.  She decided I should have a costume I wear whenever we are home alone.  Now with a 22 year old son around, this isn’t as often as we would like, but whenever he’s gone, I’m dressed as she decided.  I’m supposed to be naked and wearing an apron.  At times I’m also required to wear a collar or add the zapper.  If she has me uncaged, I’m always supposed to have the zapper on.  I basically wear one of two aprons.  The one shown in these photos and another one with “Slave Boy” inscribed on it.

Curtsying to my Queen

Angus isn’t typically visible while wearing the aprons, but can easily be shown if requested by my Queen.  Regardless of whether or not I’m dressed as she requested (presence of son/children dependent), I work at making my Queen’s life easier.  We eat a lot of clean and non-processed food.  I cook for my Queen so she needn’t worry about that.  I’ll make her coffee/tea–and she’s very particular about how it’s made.  I do laundry–any ironing she needs I do as she hates to iron.  Dishes are another of my responsibilities.  I maintain the property outside as well.  Ultimately, I try and allow her time to relax and rejuvenate while I deal with all the things that need doing.  Sometimes despite my protests, my Queen will help and do certain tasks.  However she is getting better at allowing me to do the lion’s share of the work and in time she might not do anything at all.  We do have days where she does nothing around the house.  We have a cleaner who comes in once a week.  However if something needs cleaning and can’t wait, then I do whatever is needed.  It’s what a good slave will do!

Before I lost my last blog, I had written and published more than 200 p0sts.  I received an email the other day from someone asking questions about my cage.  All those posts I had written had disappeared when my last blog was vaporized, so it seems I should likely speak about some of the important info related to wearing a cage.  At this point in my life, I’ve been mostly caged for the past 8 years.  My cage of choice is a Mature Metal Jailbird custom cage.  I’ve worn it non stop for as many as 98 days in a row–no releases.  That 98 day mark would have been longer, but I had to see an urologist and so the cage came off just before the appointment and went back on just after.  Didn’t want to involve my doctor in my kink.  The beauty of this cage is that hygiene is easily maintained while wearing it.  I use a shaving brush to clean the cage and Angus daily in the shower.  When I do remove the cage at my Queen’s behest, I will thoroughly clean it with a tooth brush.  This regime prevents odors and maintains the comfort.  I’m getting quite adept at shaving while wearing the cage.  There is only a small area that I can’t access with the cage on and so when it is off, I tidy that area up.

I do have other cages–I suppose all men who wear cages have many of them.  lol  I’ll do another post about these cages in the near future.  However I like the weight and look of the Jailbird.  When combined with the ease of maintaining hygiene, it is a clear winner.

The fantasy of wearing a cage often suggests that once caged, a male will do anything for his key holder to get it off and be allowed an orgasm.  This is fantasy.  However as a submissive male to my Queen I long to give her pleasure and make her life easier.  For me, the wearing of the cage is a constant reminder that she is my owner and that I must keep her in the fore front of my thoughts at all times.  I genuinely get great pleasure giving her pleasure.  But I just try to make her life easier at all times.   Some males will tell you that they get hornier wearing the cage for the first week or so and that then the horniness levels drop.  Again this isn’t me.  My level of horniness continues to rise the longer I wear the cage.  That is to me, one of the attractions of the denial and subjugation to my Queen.

Angus caged in his Jailbird with the Zapper on as well

Another thing that men will speak about is the difficulty sleeping in a cage.  By now, I’ve slept more than 2000 nights with a cage on her cock.  I have no problems sleeping.  Do I attempt to erect at night?  Yes I do.  I will occasionally awake to pee and realize that Angus has filled the cage.  I actually enjoy that feeling of Angus being confined.  It again says to me that I am owned and don’t have the right of erection whenever I wish.  That is hot to me!  I have sexual dreams often and will attempt to erect during the dreams.  My sleep remains undisturbed.  I think initially, there can be an acclimatizing period though where men and men’s bodies have to learn how to deal with the cage during sleep.  I suspect that this period is quite short for most men.  Anyone I know who is caged has no real difficulties with sleep.



So recently, my Queen competed in her first ever body building competition.  She did amazingly well.  I’m so proud of her.  She was the oldest competitor and she was not out of place!  The effort and discipline to compete in these events is really difficult to maintain.  The cost to compete is also amazing…lol

Hours before the show–Front view
Rear view just prior to going downstairs for the show.


Now that we are through one show though, we are aware of the ins-and-outs.  For instance all competitors get a spray tan.  For females, this is received in the nude and they don’t miss a spot.  The original tan is done the day before the show, and then on the day of the show, they strip down again and get touch-ups so that the tan is perfect.  Hair and make-up are done.  The competition suit is put on along with the CFM shoes, and the competition happens.  Because the competition suit is so small, my Queen had to completely shave her pubic area!  This is something that I love and so the competition is the gift that keeps on giving!  My Queen entered two different classes in the show.  She was in the 35+ and also the 45+ class.  She won 4th place in the 35+ division and 5th place in the 45+ division.  These were great results for a woman in her late 50’s doing her first competition.


Proof positive that they don’t miss a spot with the spray on tan!

Leaving the show behind, we finished L’October on Nov. 14th.  We actually started it in August… so it was a long month! lol  However my Queen had me out of the cage on Nov. 15th. She has indicated to me that we might be doing Deny December, so Christmas might be a caged event!  We’ve had sex numerous times–obviously many times I’ve been caged over the past 80 or so days…   Strangely, that makes me even hotter.  I really enjoy pleasing my Queen–there isn’t really anything I enjoy more than that.  The concept of wearing my cage while I’m pleasing her really makes it all about her and that is again a major turn on for me!


So my Queen and I have been on a bit of a fitness journey that has escalated in the past 6 months.   She is preparing for her first ever body-building show.  I am trying to get into the type of condition that might allow me to compete in such a show.  I am a long ways away from competition–a very long ways…  However my Queen is rounding into form nicely.  We’re about 4 weeks away from her show.  I will post pics once we get to that position.  I seem to take a very long time to build muscle.  We both are at the gym daily, and change is happening for me too, but my changes are moving much more slowly than hers.  Regardless, we are both progressing.

It’s L’October again.  I have been caged 24/7 since sometime in July.  The last several times we’ve had sex, I’ve been caged–and a couple of times I’ve been dressed.  This is a cool development.  Being used for her pleasure without getting any physical pleasure myself is a long held fantasy of mine.  Indeed the last time I had an orgasm was on Aug 6th–I believe I was still caged for that one.  It has become evident that I can orgasm in the cage.  I can’t achieve that myself, but with my Queen’s help I can get there.  The excitement of pleasing her helps greatly on that front.   So it will be interesting to see how long I remain caged.  I was out briefly on Aug 28th as I had an appointment with my urologist.  Didn’t want to involve him in my kink.  We’ve never done the full month of November or December, but perhaps this year will be different.

A by-product of training for her first show is the fatigue.  My Queen is at the gym twice a day everyday.  She does about 2 hours cardio and then later goes back to do her weights.  With her job she is always on the go.  So her libido has been effected and she isn’t often horny.  With the added fact that we have two kids back with us for a while, there isn’t a lot of opportunity for sex. So the frequency of our sexual lives has diminished as we approach her show.  A sad fact, but understandable.  I am doing almost all household chores both inside and out.  This frees her to do her thing.

A female body builder courtesy of Pinterest. Not my Queen but beautiful nonetheless.

Last note:  Ms. Rika’s husband and slave has written a new book.  It’s written from his perspective as a submissive male and slave to Ms Rika.  I think it will be a fascinating read.  It is available from several vendors, and is called “At Rika’s Whim”