CFnm–A Kink of Mine


The owner of the photograph in my featured image is Philippe Hickx (from Flickr).  I may have to take it down if he requests I do so.

So I am an exhibitionist.  When I was younger I modelled for art classes.  I actually modelled for over 20 years, but haven’t done any modeling now since around 2017.  One of the last times I modeled, I forgot I was caged and was well on my way to the site before I realized I was still wearing it.  So I had to turn around and go back home to remove the cage and this made me late for the class.  However I didn’t think they would have appreciated my being caged.  Thankfully my Queen let me remove the cage!  My Queen and I have gone to nudist clubs and Fet nights where clothing was optional.  I do find it exciting to be nude in public.  My Queen was seldom naked–but if I had the chance, I was.  lol  Relatively early in our relationship, I lost a bet to my Queen and had to strip at a ladies night at a strip club.  It was amateur night.  I actually had to pay the DJ to strip that night.  lol  That was an unknown when I made the commitment.  The whole experience was both exciting and nerve wracking!  But I did it.  Some of the women actually flashed me while I was stripping too.  So that was an added bonus!

I’m not sure why I have this kink.  But I’ve had it all my life as I can remember things from when I was 5 and 6 years old.  lol

Curtsying to my Queen

Above I’m in costume.  This is how my Queen wants me to be when we’re alone.  I actually have several aprons to wear as she decides.  Perhaps some day she will tell some of her closest friends and I’ll be asked to dress this way in front of them.  That will be a big high for me!

I’m working on organizing a femdom wedding.  We are going to renew our vows and I’ve found a cool place and person to conduct this wedding in Vegas.  I will be posting more about this in the near future.


  1. Hey!

    Wow, it feels like forever since we last connected! I remember following your blog way back when, but then it disappeared, and I had a tough time finding it again. Thank goodness for Google, right? I’m really happy we’ve managed to reconnect!

  2. Whoa, talk about a wild ride! 🎢 Reading about your adventures in modeling and nudist clubs has got me cracking up! I mean, forgetting you’re wearing a cage and showing up to model – classic mix-up! 😂 And props to your Queen for letting you dash back home to ditch the cage. Can you imagine the looks on the art students’ faces if you’d strutted in wearing that thing? Priceless!

    And that strip club escapade? Amateur night gone pro, huh? 💃 It takes serious guts to bare it all in front of a crowd, but hey, you owned that stage like a champ! And getting flashed by the audience? Talk about unexpected perks! 😜

    As for your apron collection, I gotta say, that’s some next-level fashion game! 👨‍🍳 Who knew aprons could be so versatile? Rocking them like a true fashion icon, my friend!

    And planning a femdom wedding in Vegas? Now that’s what I call taking the plunge – pun totally intended! 💍 Can’t wait to hear all about the details and see how you and your Queen bring that Vegas flair to your vows renewal. It’s gonna be epic, I just know it! Keep us posted on the femdom wedding shenanigans! 🎉

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      I do need to sit down and write a post about my thoughts on this wedding. It is still a work in progress and far in the future (at least 6 months). However I hope we have done it before Christmas or by February at the latest…
      Stay well!

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