Honeymoon in Hedo
I’ve been absent for a while and I apologize. My Queen decided we were moving and after we talked about it, I embraced the change. So for the last 6 weeks I have been feverishly purging and packing. We took down most of our paintings/pictures from the walls, so I had small holes all over the place to patch and paint. I’ve filled a storage unit 15 X 10 X 9 and given furniture and clothes to charities. I’ve also purged a lot of other things. So it’s been a busy time. With all the turmoil in the world, it looks like it will take some time to sell our place, but with all the changes it’s almost like living in a new place anyways… lol
However after our Femdom marriage, we returned home to pack for a vacation in the sunny south. I had booked a 10 day vacation at Hedonism in Jamaica. We had never been, but it seemed a place we might be able to relax and unwind at. I’m not exactly sure what we expected but likely we expected to see sexual acts happening as we arrived. Instead, we were warmly greeted by the desk staff and after getting the lowdown were escorted to our room. Hedo is a small resort. Regardless of where your room is located, you are never far from anywhere. On arrival we unpacked and went on an easy explore. After this, we went down to the beach. My Queen had decided in advance that she would not be going nude. So she went topless that first time at the beach. I went naked and realized a fantasy of mine–being naked and caged on a public beach. While I did get some looks, no one said anything to either of us. After a short time, my Queen decided to go fully nude and that’s the way she went the remainder of our stay. After a while we returned to our room and cleaned up for dinner. Hedo has theme nights and return guests are well aware of them often packing a particular outfit for each theme. We weren’t in the know before we went so we sort of made it up on the go.
Hedo has a store on site that is actually pretty good. There is a good selection of casual clothing and a pretty impressive selection of fetish wear–particularly for women! They also sell sex toys, lube, cigars, booze and snacks. The prices aren’t bad and the quality is very good. We ended up shopping there several times and purchased some very nice outfits for my Queen. So she was in pretty good shape for most of the themes. It was exciting to shop for her. Unfortunately there really wasn’t very much for males to wear. So we didn’t purchase anything for me, but I had brought some stuff and was able to make do with what I had. (I started this post on May 7 and thought I had posted it. Here it is Sept. 30th and I am finally back on my blog–so my apologies are really overdue).
I will return to Hedo in another post–but just an explanation of why I’ve been so long away. After we returned from Hedo, my Queen told me she had decided to move. She did ask for my input, but the decision was ultimately hers. I continued to purge through the months of May and June. I was also packing. In that first week of July we sold our home and four days later purchased a new home in a town about an hour away from where we were. The timelines were very tight and I continued to purge while accelerating my packing. In early August we moved–the move from hell. If it could go wrong that day, then you can bet it did. However we did sleep in our new place. Since the move, I have been spending long days unpacking, and setting up our new home. Most days I’m up at 6:00 and working until supper which I eat around 9:00 to 10:00. Then I watch a little television before crashing. Finally today I have a moment to breath and think about other things. The house if finally taking shape. Eventually it will be a really pleasant place to live.
I promise my next post will be much sooner and I will return to our Hedo honeymoon. Hopefully I will include some pics too!
Consumation of Our Marriage
So with our marriage behind us, we headed back to our hotel room. We had to stop on the way and pick up a few things we needed for our trip to the Grand Canyon the next day–and we needed to get ready for the hockey game (eat and change). We had tickets to see the Dallas Stars and Vegas Knights. So as it turned out, there was no sex between us that night–or the next day! We were up early the next day for a trip to the Grand Canyon. By the time we had returned, cleaned up and gone out for dinner, it was late and my Queen was tired. lol
But my Queen had her ideas of consummation and so on the next morning, we had our wedding sex. Initially I was caged and we did extensive touching before I was able to give my Queen several orgasms using my mouth, toys and hands. However she also wanted me to orgasm. Now regular readers will know that I don’t orgasm often. Heading into the wedding, I had had an orgasm about two weeks earlier, but the one before that had been 226 days earlier. Still my Queen wanted an orgasm from me to celebrate our marriage. One of the things that happens when I orgasm is that I am made to clean up my mess with my mouth and tongue. So my Queen removed my cage about an hour or so into our lovemaking session and then told me I was to come into a cup. Then she planned to feed me my mess. So as instructed I brought myself to orgasm for my Queen. She held a cup in the appropriate place and I emptied myself into it. It was and remains the second orgasm I’ve had this year. Then she had my open my mouth and poured my semen into my mouth. She asked me to hold my tongue out so she could take a picture and that was our marriage consummated.
Now according to my Queen we were officially slave and Wife. It has now been 42 days since that orgasm and likely will be a while before I have another. The featured image was taken on the day of our wedding and Donald was integral to our enjoyment of the ceremony. Donald is Priestess Kikko’s submissive.
Our visit to Vegas was fun and changed our lives. When we were first married in our vanilla ceremony, we hadn’t the time or money to honeymoon. This time though we planned a honeymoon. We returned home and a day later travelled to Jamaica and to the Hedonism II Resort. Perhaps the best holiday I’ve ever had, future posts will talk about our experiences there.
The Wedding–What a Fabulous Experience!
This post may be a little long–so I apologize in advance! lol At the end of January we travelled to Vegas. I had arranged to have a femdom wedding with a marvelous officiant that I can’t recommend highly enough! I will include her details at the end of this post!
Our wedding took place on Tuesday January 28th. It was to start at 1:30, but because a cab driver “got lost”, it was closer to 2:15 before it started. Thankfully our officiant only had our wedding on that afternoon and she was very accommodating. Priestess Kikko is a Vegas dominatrix who is licensed to perform weddings in the State of Nevada. The wedding took place in her home which was beautiful and also an incredible BDSM venue. Perhaps one day we’ll return and rent some space in her dungeon!
So we travelled to Vegas. It’s a neat place though it is very expensive. We acclimatized ourselves to our surroundings and on the Tuesday we got a cab to go to Priestess Kikko’s place. We weren’t actually sure where we were going, but I’d had numerous texts, emails, and conversations with her as we had prepared for the wedding. I was impressed with Kikko’s friendliness and obvious competence. So we were both excited to be taking this step into furthering our relationship!
Turns out that Kikko’s place is a house in the suburbs of Vegas. From the outside it is an ordinary home, but inside it is something else entirely. I would consider it an incredibly complete house of BDSM. There is a throne room; a jail cell; full dungeon, several specialty rooms; and it’s all immaculate! Our wedding took place in the chapel. This was a beautiful mostly white room with flowers and a beautiful chandelier.
We went to one of the specialty rooms and dressed for the wedding. Then we went downstairs for the ceremony. Priestess Kikko had one of her subs in attendance and we had consulted each other on the ceremony in advance. My Queen and Kikko waited in the chapel and after they were ready, her sub led me on a leash into their presence. Her sub gave me away for marriage.
Kikko started the ceremony by talking about a slave’s role and responsibilities before moving on to the responsibilities of my Queen. She talked about how the two of us formed a team that complements and make each other more complete. We were two halves of a whole and yet we were not equals. In this portion of the ceremony, I was on my knees and worshipped my Queen’s feet at one point. At another time, I received a ceremonial spanking. We had brought a crop with us and when my Queen struck my ass for the first time, the crop decided to give up the ghost. The head of the crop flew across the room. After a moment of brevity, Kikko instructed her sub to go and get a particular crop from one of the rooms upstairs. He did as requested and so we picked up the ceremony from the spanking portion with Kikko’s crop.
I’m going to repeat the vows exactly as they happened. They followed the preamble above.
Kikko said, “Slave michael–do you promise to give yourself to Mistress @*#@**, to dress as she desires whenever she wants, to subject yourself to every demanding and wanting desire she may have, to serve her needs in any way she requires for as long as you both shall live?”
My answer, “I, #*%$ also known as slave michael, commit myself to you Mistress @*#@**. I promise to learn and grow with you exploring life together. I will obey, seve, cherish you and respect you as my superior. I pledge my submission to you and my devotion to your pleasure. I celebrate your sexual freedom to do as you wish. I offer myself to you as your slave with my undying love, devotion and chastity. I give you total control of my life including my sexuality, my orgasms and erections. I will do everything I can for you that you desire. I choose you as the person with whom I will give my key and surrender to. My key represents our trust in each other, your superiority, and your strength to lead us for as long as we both shall live.”
Kikko: “Mistress @*#@**–Do you promise to take slave michael as your personal love slave, to use him sexually in ways even he cannot imagine, to compel him to dress as you desire whenever you wish, to shoe him the fullness of your control over him whenever he needs to feel it, for as long as you both shall live?”
My Queen’s answer: “I, Mistress @*#@**, commit myself to you slave michael as your Dominant Mistress, Queen, and Superior to teach and train. I promise to explore and adventure with you. I will respect, trust, help, care, protect and take ownership of you. I will treat you in everything as my inferior and will share my live with you. I offer you my unwavering love, influence and control. I will do for you everything that I can to make you a better slave and husband. I will help you maintain purity by holding your key, through the best and worst of what is to come. I lock you cage to symbolize our connection to one another as well as your submission to me. I accept your key as it represents our trust in each other and your acknowledgement of my superiority and strength to lead us!
At this point, My Queen locked my cage on her penis.
Kikko then spoke a little more before she pronounced us Owner and slave, Wife and husband. At the end of the ceremony, I kissed my Queen’s ass.
About Priestess Kikko and contact info for her.
My Queen and I both found Kikko to be a lovely person and very competent. She is a Domme in her own right and as mentioned her home is a treasure for BDSM enthusiasts. The fact that she is also a legal marriage officiant in Nevada is a bonus and she specializes in all forms of weddings. She can do a vanilla wedding but I think she prefers to do kinky weddings. She is beautiful and has a great sense of humour.
This is her website for weddings: https://bdsmthemeweddingslasvegas.com/
The wedding website has all the details as well as contact information. I highly recommend her services if you are thinking about any type of wedding. You will NOT be disappointed.
She is also a professional Domme and as mentioned has an incredible home and amazing selection of equipment: Here is a link for her Dominatrix site https://www.mistresskikko.com/
Thanks for reading and I apologize for the length of this post. I will be posting soon about our honeymoon in Hedonism.
The Wedding is Almost Here–I’m Excited
Just a short post–and I know it’s been awhile. I admit to having some issues with this account, but I hopefully have solved most of them.
An update on the end of the year for us… We both experienced some sickness–My Queen had pneumonia in November and I ended up with vertigo at some point towards the end of November. However we are both now well and in two days will be travelling to Las Vegas to see the city and have our Femdom Wedding. I plan to talk more about the venue and the ceremony afterwards–and hopefully include some pictures. It is likely that will have to wait until we get back from our honeymoon. We are travelling to Hedonism II after we return from Vegas. We are excited as these are totally new experiences. But life is about living and at times pushing boundaries. So I’m getting ready to do some real pushing–or having my Queen push me.
In addition to our wedding we will do a few other fun things on our short stay in Vegas. We are planning to visit the Hoover Dam and also the Grand Canyon. We hope to see a show or two and just explore the city. While neither of us are gamblers, I’m certain we will use some quarters and the slot machines…lol
On the orgasm front, I’m now at 279 days since my last orgasm (April 20, 2024). My Queen is likely at 6 days…(I’d have to check the book) She’s been very busy with work these past few weeks. Her job requires her to get ahead before she leaves for holidays. As such she has been burning the midnight oil and when she’s fatigued, sexy takes a back seat. I’m pretty certain that relaxation and holidays will change that in a big way–so that’s another reason for my excitement. lol
I hope everyone is well and that 2025 is a great year for all of you. Stay safe!
A Typical Day is Evolving
As my Queen’s submissive/slave, things are changing. Now years into this lifestyle, my Queen is really starting to embrace her role. It has slowly become more pronounced over the years. However recently with the planned wedding and lots of discussion, we’ve moved a lot further along this path. For years my Queen has been reluctant to punish me for any annoyances I may cause her. And while I don’t like punishment, I’ve always felt that if I do something to deserve it, I should receive it. It helps to clean the slate and also helps to teach me how to act. But the most important thing about punishment is the way it emphasizes my submission. It helps me to feel her power. If my Queen never uses her power, then it’s almost as if she doesn’t have any. So for me, that is the main reason I embrace her punishments.
So for me a typical day now looks something like this. In the mornings, I get up before my Queen (usually around 5:30 or 6:00). She is very particular about her coffee, and I make her coffee (very strong and different blends in a 26 oz mug), tea (also in a 26 oz mug) and set up her breakfast dishes before she awakes. I also empty the dishwasher, fill our water distiller, make ice in our icemaker. When my Queen comes downstairs, I warm her coffee, and allow her to meditate for some time. Then I kneel in front of her and ask how I can make her day better. Failure to do this will result in a spanking in the near future. This is new and is taking some getting used to. Since I am up for 2 hours or more before I usually kneel in front of her, I sometimes forget. The last time I forgot, it resulted in 85 extra spanks for that week’s punishment. Yes, spanking has become the punishment of choice.
Shortly after this I return to the bedroom and make the bed.
After my obeisance, my Queen will send me a list of tasks for that particular day–it can be a long list and may not be possible to finish in that day, but it does mean I seldom have free time. We go to the gym together and do our cardio before returning home to have breakfast. Then we usually go to the gym separately the second time for our weight training. On my return from the gym, I eat my post workout and then commence to do whatever tasks she has set for me for the day. If there are no kids around, I’m to dress as she has asked–naked with my cage and zapper on and one of my aprons. If I’m cooking I’m also to wear my chef’s hat.
At some point usually around 9:00, I am finished with my daily tasks. At that point we will sit down together and relax while watching one of her favourite shows.
And that is my typical day now! I am always trying to keep my Queen happy and make her life easier. Because as the saying goes, “Happy Wife, Happy Life!”