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As my Queen’s submissive/slave, things are changing.  Now years into this lifestyle, my Queen is really starting to embrace her role.  It has slowly become more pronounced over the years.  However recently with the planned wedding and lots of discussion, we’ve moved a lot further along this path.  For years my Queen has been reluctant to punish me for any annoyances I may cause her.  And while I don’t like punishment, I’ve always felt that if I do something to deserve it, I should receive it.  It helps to clean the slate and also helps to teach me how to act.  But the most important thing about punishment is the way it emphasizes my submission.  It helps me to feel her power.  If my Queen never uses her power, then it’s almost as if she doesn’t have any.  So for me, that is the main reason I embrace her punishments.

So for me a typical day now looks something like this.  In the mornings, I get up before my Queen (usually around 5:30 or 6:00).  She is very particular about her coffee, and I make her coffee (very strong and different blends in a 26 oz mug), tea (also in a 26 oz mug) and set up her breakfast dishes before she awakes.  I also empty the dishwasher, fill our water distiller, make ice in our icemaker.  When my Queen comes downstairs, I warm her coffee, and allow her to meditate for some time.  Then I kneel in front of her and ask how I can make her day better.  Failure to do this will result in a spanking in the near future.  This is new and is taking some getting used to.  Since I am up for 2 hours or more before I usually kneel in front of her, I sometimes forget.  The last time I forgot, it resulted in 85 extra spanks for that week’s punishment.  Yes, spanking has become the punishment of choice.

Shortly after this I return to the bedroom and make the bed.

After my obeisance, my Queen will send me a list of tasks for that particular day–it can be a long list and may not be possible to finish in that day, but it does mean I seldom have free time.  We go to the gym together and do our cardio before returning home to have breakfast.  Then we usually go to the gym separately the second time for our weight training. On my return from the gym, I eat my post workout and then commence to do whatever tasks she has set for me for the day.  If there are no kids around, I’m to dress as she has asked–naked with my cage and zapper on and one of my aprons.  If I’m cooking I’m also to wear my chef’s hat.

Preparing food for my Queen dressed as she requested.

At some point usually around 9:00, I am finished with my daily tasks.  At that point we will sit down together and relax while watching one of her favourite shows.

And that is my typical day now!  I am always trying to keep my Queen happy and make her life easier.  Because as the saying goes, “Happy Wife, Happy Life!”

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Preparing food for my Queen

One of my kinks is Clothed Female naked male (CFnm).  In fact my car license plate has this as part of it’s lettering.  lol  My Queen is of course aware of this and my exhibitionist tendencies.  She decided I should have a costume I wear whenever we are home alone.  Now with a 22 year old son around, this isn’t as often as we would like, but whenever he’s gone, I’m dressed as she decided.  I’m supposed to be naked and wearing an apron.  At times I’m also required to wear a collar or add the zapper.  If she has me uncaged, I’m always supposed to have the zapper on.  I basically wear one of two aprons.  The one shown in these photos and another one with “Slave Boy” inscribed on it.

Curtsying to my Queen

Angus isn’t typically visible while wearing the aprons, but can easily be shown if requested by my Queen.  Regardless of whether or not I’m dressed as she requested (presence of son/children dependent), I work at making my Queen’s life easier.  We eat a lot of clean and non-processed food.  I cook for my Queen so she needn’t worry about that.  I’ll make her coffee/tea–and she’s very particular about how it’s made.  I do laundry–any ironing she needs I do as she hates to iron.  Dishes are another of my responsibilities.  I maintain the property outside as well.  Ultimately, I try and allow her time to relax and rejuvenate while I deal with all the things that need doing.  Sometimes despite my protests, my Queen will help and do certain tasks.  However she is getting better at allowing me to do the lion’s share of the work and in time she might not do anything at all.  We do have days where she does nothing around the house.  We have a cleaner who comes in once a week.  However if something needs cleaning and can’t wait, then I do whatever is needed.  It’s what a good slave will do!

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So I’ve been caged 24/7 since September 21.  The beauty of a Jailbird cage (by Mature Metal) is how easy it is to maintain personal hygiene and also how comfortable it can be.  We’ve found some time alone quite a bit this month, but Angus has not penetrated Kitty once! lol  Instead I’ve used my mouth, fingers and various toys.  My Queen has had ten-eleven orgasms so far and I’ve had none.  But I’ve gotten great pleasure from giving them to her.  She did say that I would receive a blowjob at the end of the month…  That will likely lead to an orgasm for me–and then her feeding me my cum with her mouth…  But we’ll see.  Currently it’s 46 days since my last orgasm which was an accident while we were in Mexico… That orgasm was also ruined, but still occurred.

My Very Sexy Queen

I have to say that Angus gets quite cramped when my Queen decides to tease me–visually or otherwise! This picture is from last weekend.  Wearing some crotchless panties and my shirt, I was very much enticed!

 

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First let me emphasize that there is no one way to do any Power Exchange relationship.  I’m speaking about where my Queen and I are at this moment and about what is working for us.  Recently as chronicled here, our FLR took a turn.  My Queen had felt some pressure to do certain things and act in a certain way.  This was pressure that I didn’t mean to apply, but was managing to do so regardless.  After reading Ms. Rika’s first book together, we had many good conversations and things changed.  After 7 years of being caged (virtually 365/24/7), I am uncaged now.  It’s been about 6 weeks since I’ve had the cage on–to be honest I have no idea of whether it will return occasionally or not.  That is up to my Queen and she just doesn’t like it.  In a weird way I miss it–it was a huge part of my life for so long.  But I’ve committed to serving my Queen–so her likes are the important thing.  I’m still required to sit to pee when I’m at home. And this has become quite ingrained so it’s not difficult at all.  I do admit that using urinals while out and about make my life easier, lol, and certain exercises at the gym are also easier without a cage!  But I do miss it.  I suspect that she may have me wear it on rare occasions.

So what does our FLR look like now?  In many ways it is much the same as before, but I am doing more to make my Queen’s life easier.  It means my days have less free time than they did previously, but I am happy to please my Queen.  She is slowly getting better at not feeling guilty about expecting me to do her bidding while she relaxes. So we continue to evolve.  And while I am no longer caged, I am still not allowed to masturbate (really that has been conditioned out of me now… lol).  Likewise orgasms are still rare for me.  She has had me provide my own “salad dressing” a couple of time though.  That’s kind of hot for me…  I have a video of this, but need to figure out how to post videos on this new platform.  One day soon…lol  Stay well!

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So at this point in time, I can say that without question my marriage to my Queen has never been better.  We have always had a good marriage, but with the discovery of Ms. Rika’s books, we’ve progressed and have evolved.  In fact, I have been uncaged for the last two or three weeks.  After so many years of being caged almost constantly, that is a big change.  I admit to being unused to using the urinals at work…lol  I’m not sure what will become of the cage.  I obviously found sleeping and living in it easy to do, but my Queen has always disliked it.  Over the years her reasons for allowing/making me stay caged have changed and fluctuated, but with our discussions on me serving her, it became clear that my wearing a cage was serving me more than her.  She may at times have me wear it, but she likes the easy access that a cage prohibits.  So we will see where this goes.

Each week I read to my Queen–we have been working our way through Ms. Rika’s books and have almost finished the second book.  When I read to her, we often pause and discuss things that we have read.  We also evaluate how the proceeding week has gone.  I’ve always done a lot of stuff around the house, but I’m doing more now.  My Queen is actually doing less and relaxing more.  Her guilt over this still exists, but is getting better.

While not my Queen, the logo is something I believe! lol This shirt is available from Etsy store “611 Clothing Co” and the pic is taken from there.

 

I do hope that in time, she will begin to expect my service without the guilt.  I know that I feel good when she can relax and I ease her daily load.

Despite not being caged, I’m not orgasming a lot.  I’m still not allowed to masturbate and can only cum when given permission. At the moment only one child is around the home, so in the next month or so, we should have quality time together on a regular basis.  For July, we will have two kids around…