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Happy New Year everyone–this is directed to the 2-3 people who will read this… lol  It has been a busy holiday season and just now life is returning to normal.  I’ve gained a pile of weight over the last 6 months –largely due to the move and my stopping my plan.  As of this week though, I am back on my plan so the weight should evaporate over the next few months.  I still workout 5-6 times a week as does my Queen.

Much happened in 2025.  We were remarried in a Femdom ceremony and went to Hedonism for our honeymoon.  We decided to move and spent a large portion of the year packing, selling, buying, moving, and unpacking.  We got fed up with my wife’s gynecologist who we caught in a couple of lies and finally were able to see someone else about my wife’s inability to be penetrated.  Earlier this week we saw this doctor again at the hospital and he examined my wife very closely to figure out exactly what he needed to do to help solve her problem.  The good news is that he believes he can eliminate the problem and that post surgery, recovery should only take about 8 weeks.  Now we’re not sure when the surgery will happen, but it shouldn’t be too long now.  So with any luck at all, penetration should be back on the table by the summer.  Of course I only penetrate my Queen if she desires, but as it’s been years since she could handle any penetration, I expect she’ll go a bit wild initially.  I’ll be working hard to avoid orgasms that aren’t permitted.

We’ve played a little in the last little while.  But as I’m now at 104 days consecutively caged, I don’t always even bother to undress–unless my Queen wants me to.  btw, this 104 days is a record for me.  So everyday it will increase by one until my Queen decides she wants to play with her uncaged toy!  The last orgasms of 2025 happened on Dec. 29th.  On that occasion, my Queen had 3 very satisfying orgasms.

My Queen's beautiful pussy post orgasm
After our last play session, my Queen’s pussy was plump with engorgement.

Orgasm totals for 2025 were a bit disappointing.  Especially as we started the year so well.  However life got in the way.  With the move we were so busy and exhausted.  There was also a lot of stress.  And while stress doesn’t stop my libido, it isn’t my libido that matters.  My Queen needed to feel frisky and stress is not something that helps her get in the mood.  So our orgasm totals for 2025 were:  My Queen had 135 orgasms while I had 9 full orgasms and 2 ruined.  That’s a pretty good year for me, but not the best for my Queen.  I should point out that my Queen likes to see me orgasm–and then likes to make me clean up my mess.  So I might go a pile of days and then she’ll have me cum 2-3 times over a week or so.  So my last orgasm was a caged orgasm 68 days ago.

 

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As I begin this post it is Nov 21.  I have been caged since Sept. 27 a total of 55 days so far.  It is possible that we may set a new record (the old record is 96 days), but that is not a decision I will make.  It is the decision of my Queen.

For those of you who have read my blog for a long time, you may remember that in a previous incarnation I wrote about how my Queen had had an hysterectomy.  There were very good reasons for the surgery, but there has been an unfortunate consequence.  The surgery was about 6 years ago.  Prior to that time we engaged in PIV sex regularly–I didn’t orgasm without permission, but my Queen enjoyed being penetrated.  After a suitable recovery time, we started to engage in intercourse again–it didn’t go well.  I had to be extremely careful and we had to be in just the right position.  Gradually we tried less and less.  Then we started to use a dildo we have.  It is smaller than me in girth and length.  For a while, that seemed to do the trick.  Care still had to be used, but my Queen could enjoy herself. However even that toy soon became too much.  We’ve visited the doctor and he gave the stock answer that she needed more lube!  (bullshit)  Eventually I would carefully use a finger and only insert it a small amount.  One day I touched something that was hard and sharp.  Freaked me out.  Really freaked out my Queen.  We’ve been back to the surgeon and also to our family doctor.  These physicians confirmed the sharp item and it appears that a piece of mesh inserted into my Queen has formed some scar tissue and has worked through the walls of the vagina.  We are lucky to see still another specialist who deals with mesh problems.  Hopefully he will be able to repair this damage and we can resume penetrative sex.

Till then, I am living a virtual pussy free life.  I never penetrate my Queen and only use toys and my mouth on her.  On occasion,  she will have me carefully use a finger.  When we play I am often caged and sometimes am fully clothed.  Last time we played, I was nude though caged.  She had me lie on the bed with my head overhanging the edge.  She moved over my face and I proceeded to please her with my tongue.  At the same time she played with Angus until eventually I came while still in my cage.  By then, my Queen had had three orgasms and had gushed all over my face.  She then climbed off me and scooped up my cum with her fingers before feeding me my own slop.

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Well L’October has started.  So as I write about Hedo and our honeymoon, any exciting memories will cause bulging out of the cage! lol October has 31 days, but somehow I always seem to go at least 50 and sometimes more.  We played on Saturday and while I didn’t touch Angus, he was out of the cage for a bit.  So my L’October started on Sept. 27th.

However, back to Hedo.  This post will contain memories of things that happened there.  They may be disjointed and not necessarily in the order that they happened, but it is a long time ago now.  We had a marvelous time there.  Food was great, weather fantastic and we also met some nice people.  The resort is small but complete.  They have a pavilion called the Kama Sutra and they run free workshops every day at noon.  Additionally you can book paid services from them.  We went almost every day and really enjoyed the increased intimacy the workshops fostered.  Before we left, we booked a couples massage and that was marvelous too!  Each day we would have a nice breakfast, go to the gym and workout, before heading over to the Kama Sutra for our workshop.  It was a unique experience as it was full of couples.  They had mattresses laid out on the floor and likely had room for 12-14 couples.  Everyone was nude and it was a new experience for the two of us.  In fairness, no one was gawking at others–the focus was on our partners, but still if you looked up there was a couple in front of you naked.  After the workshop, we would perhaps play a little and then go for lunch.  The afternoons were spent outside mostly nude enjoying the sun.

There is a hot tub/pool at Hedo at one end of the property.  It tends to have the more exciting action regularly.  If the mood hits people, they might go at it right there or they might move into a nearby cabin to play before returning to the pool.  We saw several lucky guys getting blow jobs over the ten days and a couple of times we saw intercourse.  It was freeing and people really didn’t stare or spectate–they just continued to party and drink.  We didn’t do anything at this pool except converse and meet a few people.  My Queen did play with me a little causing Angus to attempt an erection that the cage prevented.  Towards the end of our time there, my Queen removed my cage and played with Angus generating a full erection.  Then she would ask me to go to the bar and get her a drink.  That was deliciously embarrassing.  There is lots of nudity and sometimes sex happening, but guys generally don’t walk around with a full erection.

One of the themes at Hedo is Fetish night.  For us it was relatively easy.  We went as who we actually are.  I was leashed and caged and my Queen was in some fetish finery.  I think there were more participants for this contest than any other during our stay.  When it was all said and done, we were winners!

After winning the Fetish contest at Hedo

As the 10 days progressed, my Queen became more relaxed.  One day she decided that after dinner I would give her an orgasm with my mouth–on one of the beds just outside of the buffet.  This is a central spot at Hedo and people are always walking around there.  So after spending some time in the Karaoke Bar, we left and she pulled me to this one bed.  She had me strip and then lay down on the bed with her legs spread.  Her outfit was very sexy and she wasn’t wearing panties.  She pulled my face to her pussy and I started to do my favourite thing!

The outfit my Queen was wearing as I went down on her outside the buffet!

My focus was totally on my Queen but as she came closer and closer to orgasm, many people walked by.  Apparently a couple paused for a moment–though most just looked as they walked by.  The exhibitionism seemed to turn her on even more than usual and she had a massive orgasm.  My face was soaked and Angus was pushing hard against his cage.  When she was finished, we cuddled for a moment before returning to our room.

Hedo has a playroom.  It opens reasonably late in the evening and you must strip down to enter it.  They don’t want gawkers.  It took us a about a week before my Queen decided we would go to it.  Initially we were just going to walk in and see what it was about, but as I said they tell you to strip if you’re going inside.  There are mattresses covering the floor of this pavillion and the ceiling is non-existent.  Kind of cool to look up and see stars… lol  At any rate we found a section of mattress and started to caress each other.  All around us were other couples and at least one threesome making love/having sex!  My focus was on my Queen and after she had had another couple of orgasms, we got up and left.  My Queen had been afraid that we would be pressured by others to let them join us or to join them.  Nothing like that happened at all.

Ultimately Hedo was one of the best vacations we ever had.  There was a true openness and freedom to be yourself there.  People were very friendly and we’ve planned a return visit.

 

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So one of the things I’ve been doing for years is keeping track of orgasms both my Queen and I have.  It’s a lot more work to tally up my Queen’s than mine though! lol  We started chastity in the fall of 2014.  In our first efforts, my Queen was reluctant to deny me.  She couldn’t understand how much more excited I was about her pleasure than my own.  So our first try a this was successful but only lasting 2.5 months.  In that time, my Queen had 61 orgasms while I had 10 and 2 more that were ruined.  If you actually look at that time frame, my Queen was pretty good for much of the time, but as we approached the end of our agreement, she allowed me or had me cum numerous times which took my totals up to the stratospheric number of 10!  lol

After allowing a little time to think about how things went, we continued our journey and my Queen gradually began to get good at denial.  She likes to tease me until I’m close to popping off and then shutting things down.  In the decade since then, I have gone 485 days and another time 526 days between orgasms!  The 526 days is my record though for both of those periods I didn’t even have a ruined orgasm!  So the total numbers since we started this journey are 1666 orgasms for my Queen and 51 for me with an additional 10 ruined orgasms.  When you consider that 10 of mine and 2 of the ruined ones fell in the first 2.5 months, you’ll realize how seldom I actually orgasm.

In 2023 our numbers break down as follows:  My Queen had 119 orgasms while I had 3 plus 4 ruined.  My Queen is funny in that she will deny me for months and then decide I’m to cum 2-3 times in a short period of time.  For instance when I went the 526 days, she decided I would orgasm  and then had me orgasm 3 more times that month.  So I went a year and a half without an orgasm only to cum 4 times in one month–or perhaps I should say only to feed 4 times in one month!  She is very good at making sure I clean my messes–seems to turn her on a little!  The beauty of it is that anything that turns her on also turns me on.  It’s a win win!

Masturbation just isn’t part of my life anymore!

Life has changed for me in a big way!  I used to masturbate daily or even more frequently…  And now, I only masturbate if told to–and only if my Queen removes my cage.  I guess I have evolved.  But the thing is, I like being horny and I love giving my Queen pleasure!  For me that’s what it’s all about!

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Life slowly returns to normal after a death and ours is no exception.  Responsibilities must be met and physical attraction causes desires…  And trust me when I say that I am immensely physically attracted to my wife!  We are both working with coaches to improve our physiques.  In fact I just moved to a new and far better coach than I had before.  So this past week have been full of changes for me.  And I can see small changes today over where I was last week.  In addition to our training, we have set aside Sunday morning for some alone time.  Our son sleeps in Sundays which gives us a modicum of privacy.  That added to the fact that we have less responsibility on Sunday gives us freedom to laze away in bed.  So last Sunday we enjoyed each other.  I have been caged nonstop for most of March.  The past few times we’ve had sex, I’ve been caged.  I have enjoyed it immensely, but haven’t been able to erect and haven’t orgasmed myself.  Instead my pleasure has largely come from pleasing my Queen using my hands, mouth, vibrators, and dildos.  The last two times, I’ve worn a strap-on to penetrate her.

This is a huge turn-on for me, and I get hornier as a result.  Long time readers will remember how much I love that high level of horniness.  On Sunday, after we were finished, I asked my Queen if I could remove the cage for a moment to take a shot of Angus.  One of my readers (Georgia) had recently asked about a shot showing the marks on Angus after some excitement.  So when my Queen said yes, we took off the cage to take some shots.  Now Angus is not fully erect here, but you can clearly see the marks left by the cage after all the excitement of pleasing my Queen.    So this if for you Georgia!  lol

On the orgasm front, I haven’t had an orgasm in quite some time–and that’s ok.

From my Queen’s perspective
My view looking down from above