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Well L’October has started.  So as I write about Hedo and our honeymoon, any exciting memories will cause bulging out of the cage! lol October has 31 days, but somehow I always seem to go at least 50 and sometimes more.  We played on Saturday and while I didn’t touch Angus, he was out of the cage for a bit.  So my L’October started on Sept. 27th.

However, back to Hedo.  This post will contain memories of things that happened there.  They may be disjointed and not necessarily in the order that they happened, but it is a long time ago now.  We had a marvelous time there.  Food was great, weather fantastic and we also met some nice people.  The resort is small but complete.  They have a pavilion called the Kama Sutra and they run free workshops every day at noon.  Additionally you can book paid services from them.  We went almost every day and really enjoyed the increased intimacy the workshops fostered.  Before we left, we booked a couples massage and that was marvelous too!  Each day we would have a nice breakfast, go to the gym and workout, before heading over to the Kama Sutra for our workshop.  It was a unique experience as it was full of couples.  They had mattresses laid out on the floor and likely had room for 12-14 couples.  Everyone was nude and it was a new experience for the two of us.  In fairness, no one was gawking at others–the focus was on our partners, but still if you looked up there was a couple in front of you naked.  After the workshop, we would perhaps play a little and then go for lunch.  The afternoons were spent outside mostly nude enjoying the sun.

There is a hot tub/pool at Hedo at one end of the property.  It tends to have the more exciting action regularly.  If the mood hits people, they might go at it right there or they might move into a nearby cabin to play before returning to the pool.  We saw several lucky guys getting blow jobs over the ten days and a couple of times we saw intercourse.  It was freeing and people really didn’t stare or spectate–they just continued to party and drink.  We didn’t do anything at this pool except converse and meet a few people.  My Queen did play with me a little causing Angus to attempt an erection that the cage prevented.  Towards the end of our time there, my Queen removed my cage and played with Angus generating a full erection.  Then she would ask me to go to the bar and get her a drink.  That was deliciously embarrassing.  There is lots of nudity and sometimes sex happening, but guys generally don’t walk around with a full erection.

One of the themes at Hedo is Fetish night.  For us it was relatively easy.  We went as who we actually are.  I was leashed and caged and my Queen was in some fetish finery.  I think there were more participants for this contest than any other during our stay.  When it was all said and done, we were winners!

After winning the Fetish contest at Hedo

As the 10 days progressed, my Queen became more relaxed.  One day she decided that after dinner I would give her an orgasm with my mouth–on one of the beds just outside of the buffet.  This is a central spot at Hedo and people are always walking around there.  So after spending some time in the Karaoke Bar, we left and she pulled me to this one bed.  She had me strip and then lay down on the bed with her legs spread.  Her outfit was very sexy and she wasn’t wearing panties.  She pulled my face to her pussy and I started to do my favourite thing!

The outfit my Queen was wearing as I went down on her outside the buffet!

My focus was totally on my Queen but as she came closer and closer to orgasm, many people walked by.  Apparently a couple paused for a moment–though most just looked as they walked by.  The exhibitionism seemed to turn her on even more than usual and she had a massive orgasm.  My face was soaked and Angus was pushing hard against his cage.  When she was finished, we cuddled for a moment before returning to our room.

Hedo has a playroom.  It opens reasonably late in the evening and you must strip down to enter it.  They don’t want gawkers.  It took us a about a week before my Queen decided we would go to it.  Initially we were just going to walk in and see what it was about, but as I said they tell you to strip if you’re going inside.  There are mattresses covering the floor of this pavillion and the ceiling is non-existent.  Kind of cool to look up and see stars… lol  At any rate we found a section of mattress and started to caress each other.  All around us were other couples and at least one threesome making love/having sex!  My focus was on my Queen and after she had had another couple of orgasms, we got up and left.  My Queen had been afraid that we would be pressured by others to let them join us or to join them.  Nothing like that happened at all.

Ultimately Hedo was one of the best vacations we ever had.  There was a true openness and freedom to be yourself there.  People were very friendly and we’ve planned a return visit.

 

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So one of the things I’ve been doing for years is keeping track of orgasms both my Queen and I have.  It’s a lot more work to tally up my Queen’s than mine though! lol  We started chastity in the fall of 2014.  In our first efforts, my Queen was reluctant to deny me.  She couldn’t understand how much more excited I was about her pleasure than my own.  So our first try a this was successful but only lasting 2.5 months.  In that time, my Queen had 61 orgasms while I had 10 and 2 more that were ruined.  If you actually look at that time frame, my Queen was pretty good for much of the time, but as we approached the end of our agreement, she allowed me or had me cum numerous times which took my totals up to the stratospheric number of 10!  lol

After allowing a little time to think about how things went, we continued our journey and my Queen gradually began to get good at denial.  She likes to tease me until I’m close to popping off and then shutting things down.  In the decade since then, I have gone 485 days and another time 526 days between orgasms!  The 526 days is my record though for both of those periods I didn’t even have a ruined orgasm!  So the total numbers since we started this journey are 1666 orgasms for my Queen and 51 for me with an additional 10 ruined orgasms.  When you consider that 10 of mine and 2 of the ruined ones fell in the first 2.5 months, you’ll realize how seldom I actually orgasm.

In 2023 our numbers break down as follows:  My Queen had 119 orgasms while I had 3 plus 4 ruined.  My Queen is funny in that she will deny me for months and then decide I’m to cum 2-3 times in a short period of time.  For instance when I went the 526 days, she decided I would orgasm  and then had me orgasm 3 more times that month.  So I went a year and a half without an orgasm only to cum 4 times in one month–or perhaps I should say only to feed 4 times in one month!  She is very good at making sure I clean my messes–seems to turn her on a little!  The beauty of it is that anything that turns her on also turns me on.  It’s a win win!

Masturbation just isn’t part of my life anymore!

Life has changed for me in a big way!  I used to masturbate daily or even more frequently…  And now, I only masturbate if told to–and only if my Queen removes my cage.  I guess I have evolved.  But the thing is, I like being horny and I love giving my Queen pleasure!  For me that’s what it’s all about!

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Life slowly returns to normal after a death and ours is no exception.  Responsibilities must be met and physical attraction causes desires…  And trust me when I say that I am immensely physically attracted to my wife!  We are both working with coaches to improve our physiques.  In fact I just moved to a new and far better coach than I had before.  So this past week have been full of changes for me.  And I can see small changes today over where I was last week.  In addition to our training, we have set aside Sunday morning for some alone time.  Our son sleeps in Sundays which gives us a modicum of privacy.  That added to the fact that we have less responsibility on Sunday gives us freedom to laze away in bed.  So last Sunday we enjoyed each other.  I have been caged nonstop for most of March.  The past few times we’ve had sex, I’ve been caged.  I have enjoyed it immensely, but haven’t been able to erect and haven’t orgasmed myself.  Instead my pleasure has largely come from pleasing my Queen using my hands, mouth, vibrators, and dildos.  The last two times, I’ve worn a strap-on to penetrate her.

This is a huge turn-on for me, and I get hornier as a result.  Long time readers will remember how much I love that high level of horniness.  On Sunday, after we were finished, I asked my Queen if I could remove the cage for a moment to take a shot of Angus.  One of my readers (Georgia) had recently asked about a shot showing the marks on Angus after some excitement.  So when my Queen said yes, we took off the cage to take some shots.  Now Angus is not fully erect here, but you can clearly see the marks left by the cage after all the excitement of pleasing my Queen.    So this if for you Georgia!  lol

On the orgasm front, I haven’t had an orgasm in quite some time–and that’s ok.

From my Queen’s perspective
My view looking down from above

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So the year has started well though we did have a wrinkle this past week.  However my Queen is averaging more than one orgasm a day so far and I’m loving it.  She has also given me 2 full orgasms and one ruined.  So I really have no idea how this year’s totals will be for me! lol  For both of my orgasms, I was restrained and on my back.  I was teased excessively and when I finally was allowed to cum, the orgasms were incredible.  For the second orgasm, my Queen wanted a drink and forced me to cum into her mouth.  Then she moved up my body and spit my cum into my mouth for me to drink and swallow.  I do find that hot, though after an orgasm the urge diminishes somewhat…lol  Still I did as she wanted.

My Queen’s oral ministrations

While she was sucking Angus, she was sitting on my face.  I was feverishly working on her pussy and she was having orgasm after orgasm…  And squirting like crazy.  I just kept drinking!  It was great!

Then last week I mentioned we were approaching International Chastity Month (January 14th-February 14th).  After laughing and suggesting I was making it up, she did a quick search and discovered “it” was a thing! lol  So I’ve been caged non-stop since the 14th and likely won’t be released for any time until February 15th.  Of course this is my Queen’s decision and a Lady always has the right to change her mind…  Maybe she’ll decide I go longer… maybe not!

The wrinkle we had this past week involved my son.  He was up North at a friend’s.  This friend has lost almost all of his friends due to his volatile temper.  From what I’ve heard, he may be bi-polar.  At any rate my son was visiting him for the weekend and on Sunday night they had been drinking a few beers.  Over the evening my son had had 3 tall boys.  Suddenly this friend (let’s call him Ted) got angry with my son.  Ted started to threaten him and was getting physical.  Though my son doesn’t drink and drive, he felt unsafe–particularly when Ted’s girlfriend started ramping Ted up and threatening my son too!  He decided to leave.  My son had another friend about 30 minutes away that he felt he could crash at.  As soon as he got out the door, Ted called the police and said there was a crazy drunk driver who had just driven past his house.  As “luck” would have it a patrol car was very near by and my son was pulled over less than two miles from Ted’s.  So we received calls in the middle of the night to come up and pick him up.  It has really caused a lot of stress.  And what’s worse is that my son left Ted’s so quickly we have to go back to get his stuff (if it’s still there).

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So ever since we started this chastity/FLR journey, I’ve been keeping track of orgasm totals.  I keep them written down in a book and I also have an app that lets me know how long between orgasms we go.  My Queen seldom goes more than a week between orgasms–and often has one even more frequently.  I usually go much longer between my orgasms.  My record is over 500 days between orgasms… However for the past couple of years, my Queen hasn’t made me wait that long.  lol

In this past year, my Queen had 145 orgasms–a bit of a down year.  The Pandemic has had a negative effect as we have had more kids around.  I have only had 11, but 4 of those occurred in the past month–my Queen must have been feeling generous… lol

Further to that, I’ve actually had one orgasm already this year–on January 1st.  My Queen and I had some fun on that first day of the year.  She actually wore an item I had purchased for her two Christmas’ ago.  She hadn’t deigned to wear it before then…

When I gave my Queen the totals, her initial comment was, “Wow, that’s less than one every two days…!”  I suspect we’ll do much better this year! lol  On the other hand, I may not see 11 this year…