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I’ve been in chastity since 2015.  Before that I flirted with it for a year or so…  So I’m not new to this lifestyle.  My beautiful wife is my Queen.  We’ve been in an FLR for several years now!  To be honest, most of the time it’s business as usual, but sometimes, it becomes very obvious who’s in charge.  My kids (adults now) chastise her at times for being bossy, but we just grin and move on with life.  At any rate I had never told my Queen about L’October.  However this fall, I told her about it and the other special months (no Nut November, Deny December, and the International Chastity Month (Jan 14th to Feb. 15th)).  After speaking about this, she decided we’d do L’October this year.

I’m lucky I’m in a Mature Metal Jailbird.  Good hygiene is easy in this cage.  So it doesn’t have to ever come off.  I’ve been in it non-stop now since Sept. 25th (I think-some time around there anyways).  Even when we’ve played, I’ve used my mouth, hands, and toys to pleasure her.  I’ve remained caged.  The pressure of Angus trying to erect is exciting and I find it sort of pleasurable.  She has smaller fingers than me, and can tease me through the bars of the cage.  That I also find very pleasurable. lol

Normally, she will remove the cage when we play thus freeing Angus.  She will often desire penetration which I will provide though I’m not usually allowed to cum.  So this month has been different.  We’ve played and I’ve remained caged.  I actually love this.  It thrills me to be used and to be able to give her pleasure while not being allowed to cum myself.  Not being allowed to even erect is fabulous! So I’m enjoying L’October immensely.

I did expect to be taken out of the cage today though.  Those of you who followed my older blog will remember that my Queen had a hysterectomy a couple of years ago.  Unfortunately since that surgery, penetration has been difficult.  She has had a lot of pain.  I’ve had to be very careful and had to move very slowly when penetration happens.  Further, we have to find that “magic” position.  Suffice it to say that penetration hasn’t been as good as my Queen desires.  I certainly can’t pump her vigorously as she likes.

To that end, she was finally able to see her gynecologist at the end of September.  He established that it wasn’t my girth that was the problem, but rather a lack of elasticity in her vagina–the result of the surgery.  So he prescribed some sort of hormonal ring to be placed high inside her.  This was to secrete some necessary hormones that should help with the problem.  It was to take 2-3 weeks to become effective and went into her on Sept. 30th.

She wanted to try intercourse and see if it worked this weekend.  I told her that L’October was her decision and if that’s what she wanted, Angus would be freed.  So I was expecting to be freed this weekend–but as I write this, I don’t think it will happen.  We’ve played and I’ve remained caged.  We will likely play again today (we’re child free this weekend), but she’s indicated I’ll be staying caged.

So perhaps I’ll be using the strap-on on her!  That is a weird feeling.  To be fucking someone and to have no sensation in Angus is strange.  And yet I enjoy it as I really like to give her pleasure!  So is L’October different for me?  Yes… Yes it is!  And that’s ok.  In fact, it’s better than ok!  Maybe she’ll have me do this more often.  I find it extremely arousing to be giving her pleasure while caged.

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So WordPress banned me—they really were quite nasty about it too!  I hope to eventually retrieve some of my over 200 posts, but with my lack of technical expertise, that will be an adventure.  The fact that I’m this far in recovery, is a tribute to Caged Lion from Male Chastity Journal(https://www.malechastityjournal.com/)   He graciously spent some time setting things up for me.  There is more to do and I might eventually figure it out—or not!  lol.

Life has continued over this summer.  I have been dealing with an ailing father, but he’s moved into an assisted living place and is doing much better.  We’re in the process of fixing up and selling his former residence, but it is now empty and ready for that.  My Queen and I have been enjoying her newly free weekends—she was finally able to quit her second job!  This has allowed us to be together more often and also allowed us to sneak in some sexy times around the kids schedules!

She has had me clean all the grout in our home and also to seal it.  Recently when we found ourselves alone she had me working on it naked–well I was caged! lol  And wearing my indoor shoes.  One thing that is clear from the pictures she took, I need to work on my covid muscle!  Over the next 6 months, I hope to lose 30 pounds.

I promise to try and write with more detail soon, but right now I’m just trying to figure things out.  This new format needs some work and I am technically challenged.  However, I did have an orgasm on Sunday–it was my first since May 24th.  My Queen had me cum on her ass and then lick it clean.  It was the end of a fabulous love making session.  We had a good amount of alone time on Sunday and I was able to give my Queen 8 orgasms.  It was so much fun!  Honestly, I didn’t need to cum, but she wanted me to.  In an FLR, it is always her choice.  So our version of chastity is going well!  lol

I expect that my new location means I’ve lost most followers–so this is really starting from scratch again.  I am hopeful that I will be able to retrieve some of my older posts.  At the moment, it appears I need to be on the desktop to do any posts and I used to do everything from my phone.  Accessing the computer without kids around is a challenge, so posts may be more infrequent until I can either get a laptop or figure out how to make things work with my phone.

Upcoming adventures–we’re heading out on a road trip for our first time out of the house in forever (seems like anyways).  We’re both double vaccinated, so we have some protection.  We plan to drive 3-4000 km over the 10-12 days we’re away.

There is a nude beach in our path, and I’m hoping to visit it with my Queen.  That might be cool if I’m caged… lol

We’ll likely have lots of sex as we’ll finally be totally alone–but it is unlikely that I will have any orgasms!

If you’ve followed me here, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.  The fact that I’m here at all is a tribute to the kindness and expertise of Caged Lion.  Check out his blog.  He and his wife write a blog post each day and the two different viewpoints are cool to read.