The Difficulty of Starting Again—or Am I Really This Dense?

So WordPress banned me—they really were quite nasty about it too!  I hope to eventually retrieve some of my over 200 posts, but with my lack of technical expertise, that will be an adventure.  The fact that I’m this far in recovery, is a tribute to Caged Lion from Male Chastity Journal(   He graciously spent some time setting things up for me.  There is more to do and I might eventually figure it out—or not!  lol.

Life has continued over this summer.  I have been dealing with an ailing father, but he’s moved into an assisted living place and is doing much better.  We’re in the process of fixing up and selling his former residence, but it is now empty and ready for that.  My Queen and I have been enjoying her newly free weekends—she was finally able to quit her second job!  This has allowed us to be together more often and also allowed us to sneak in some sexy times around the kids schedules!

She has had me clean all the grout in our home and also to seal it.  Recently when we found ourselves alone she had me working on it naked–well I was caged! lol  And wearing my indoor shoes.  One thing that is clear from the pictures she took, I need to work on my covid muscle!  Over the next 6 months, I hope to lose 30 pounds.

I promise to try and write with more detail soon, but right now I’m just trying to figure things out.  This new format needs some work and I am technically challenged.  However, I did have an orgasm on Sunday–it was my first since May 24th.  My Queen had me cum on her ass and then lick it clean.  It was the end of a fabulous love making session.  We had a good amount of alone time on Sunday and I was able to give my Queen 8 orgasms.  It was so much fun!  Honestly, I didn’t need to cum, but she wanted me to.  In an FLR, it is always her choice.  So our version of chastity is going well!  lol

I expect that my new location means I’ve lost most followers–so this is really starting from scratch again.  I am hopeful that I will be able to retrieve some of my older posts.  At the moment, it appears I need to be on the desktop to do any posts and I used to do everything from my phone.  Accessing the computer without kids around is a challenge, so posts may be more infrequent until I can either get a laptop or figure out how to make things work with my phone.

Upcoming adventures–we’re heading out on a road trip for our first time out of the house in forever (seems like anyways).  We’re both double vaccinated, so we have some protection.  We plan to drive 3-4000 km over the 10-12 days we’re away.

There is a nude beach in our path, and I’m hoping to visit it with my Queen.  That might be cool if I’m caged… lol

We’ll likely have lots of sex as we’ll finally be totally alone–but it is unlikely that I will have any orgasms!

If you’ve followed me here, I thank you from the bottom of my heart.  The fact that I’m here at all is a tribute to the kindness and expertise of Caged Lion.  Check out his blog.  He and his wife write a blog post each day and the two different viewpoints are cool to read.



  1. Oh, Michael! I am so glad to hear from you and to know that you are okay. How I have missed you, my friend! To be honest, I was wondering how your blog had gone unnoticed by the WordPress police. I got in a bit of trouble with admin a while back, but they did give me a chance to delete the pictures that they considered “pornography”. I am so glad that your blog has found a new home though, your presence has been missed. If you’d like, I can share one of your posts on my site with a link to your new blog…so at least the people who were following both of us on WordPress will know you are over here now. In any case…so glad to see a post from you! Licking your own cum off your Queen’s ass is so freakin’ hot. Glad to see you two still up to your kinky adventures 🙂 XOXO

    1. Thanks for introducing me to this site Naughty Nora. Such a horrible thought to think that WP censors. I guess we all have to be careful. Makes you want to host your own thing…

  2. YYou know, don’t try to restore everything. Start all over again, with a clean slate. Consider that you have been rendered a favor and given a second chance. Your new site is already starting to look alive. Write further from this place and everything will work out by itself. Thank you Leo for helping you! The world is not without good people. And correct the name of your site if you write comments. People cannot find you. To some of them I gave your correct url.

  3. Thank you for sharing this. It is horrible that WordPress banned you. Why on earth would they do that? Can they even do that? It is horrible to think that WordPress can take away something which you would think belonged to you. I am so sorry. Please tell us more about what happened.

    1. Author

      Thank you… WordPress can do whatever they like. I have had to order a new computer on top of everything, and it has just arrived. So hopefully I’ll get this blog going now!

  4. Hi,

    You are a celebrity now, I was inactive on my blog for a month (had COVID). When I returned you were nowhere to be found. To be honest I was worried. Today I couldn’t remember your URL so I googled you and lo and behold here you are. I Will have to read your blog, but tell me in short why did wordpress ban you. Also are you and your family okay ??

    1. Author

      Hi, Nice to see you! My family and I are well. Are you still having trouble following me?

  5. Hey,

    See a similar thing had happened to me, I deleted my Instagram which I used for 8 years. Now I’m back on it again occasionally I do post an old picture but it’s all-new. It gets too stressful friend to have to post everything. Also learning curve, always have a backup. I can share your link on my blog too but I myself can’t join your blog.

  6. Michael,
    This explains a lot! I was looking and looking for you, and of course, didn’t find you. I wondered why or what I was doing wrong (cuz me and IT tend to have trouble frequently!). Stupid WP! :(. But I’m glad to re-find you again now too!

    Now I’m catch up with what you’ve been able to post that I’ve missed here. 🙂

    1. Author

      Hi Marie…
      I am very slow getting this off the ground. It is now harder to do everything and I don’t have this set up exactly as I would want. But I’ll get there eventually. I’m so pleased you took the effort to find me. Thank you! I hope you have a wonderful 2022!

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