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This post may be a little long–so I apologize in advance! lol  At the end of January we travelled to Vegas. I had arranged to have a femdom wedding with a marvelous officiant that I can’t recommend highly enough!  I will include her details at the end of this post!

Our wedding took place on Tuesday January 28th.  It was to start at 1:30, but because a cab driver “got lost”, it was closer to 2:15 before it started.  Thankfully our officiant only had our wedding on that afternoon and she was very accommodating.  Priestess Kikko is a Vegas dominatrix who is licensed to perform weddings in the State of Nevada.  The wedding took place in her home which was beautiful and also an incredible BDSM venue.  Perhaps one day we’ll return and rent some space in her dungeon!

So we travelled to Vegas.  It’s a neat place though it is very expensive.  We acclimatized ourselves to our surroundings and on the Tuesday we got a cab to go to Priestess Kikko’s place.  We weren’t actually sure where we were going, but I’d had numerous texts, emails, and conversations with her as we had prepared for the wedding.  I was impressed with Kikko’s friendliness and obvious competence.  So we were both excited to be taking this step into furthering our relationship!

Turns out that Kikko’s place is a house in the suburbs of Vegas.  From the outside it is an ordinary home, but inside it is something else entirely.  I would consider it an incredibly complete house of BDSM.  There is a throne room; a jail cell; full dungeon, several specialty rooms; and it’s all immaculate!  Our wedding took place in the chapel.  This was a beautiful mostly white room with flowers and a beautiful chandelier.

After the Wedding

We went to one of the specialty rooms and dressed for the wedding.  Then we went downstairs for the ceremony.  Priestess Kikko had one of her subs in attendance and we had consulted each other on the ceremony in advance.  My Queen and Kikko waited in the chapel and after they were ready, her sub led me on a leash into their presence.  Her sub gave me away for marriage.

Kikko started the ceremony by talking about a slave’s role and responsibilities before moving on to the responsibilities of my Queen.  She talked about how the two of us formed a team that complements and make each other more complete.  We were two halves of a whole and yet we were not equals.  In this portion of the ceremony, I was on my knees and worshipped my Queen’s feet at one point.  At another time, I received a ceremonial spanking.  We had brought a crop with us and when my Queen struck my ass for the first time, the crop decided to give up the ghost.  The head of the crop flew across the room.  After a moment of brevity, Kikko instructed her sub to go and get a particular crop from one of the rooms upstairs.  He did as requested and so we picked up the ceremony from the spanking portion with Kikko’s crop.

I’m going to repeat the vows exactly as they happened.  They followed the preamble above.

Kikko said, “Slave michael–do you promise to give yourself to Mistress @*#@**, to dress as she desires whenever she wants, to subject yourself to every demanding and wanting desire she may have, to serve her needs in any way she requires for as long as you both shall live?”

My answer, “I, #*%$ also known as slave michael, commit myself to you Mistress @*#@**.  I promise to learn and grow with you exploring life together.  I will obey, seve, cherish you and respect you as my superior.  I pledge my submission to you and my devotion to your pleasure.  I celebrate your sexual freedom to do as you wish.  I offer myself to you as your slave with my undying love, devotion and chastity.  I give you total control of my life including my sexuality, my orgasms and erections.  I will do everything I can for you that you desire.  I choose you as the person with whom I will give my key and surrender to.  My key represents our trust in each other, your superiority, and your strength to lead us for as long as we both shall live.”

Kikko:  “Mistress @*#@**–Do you promise to take slave michael as your personal love slave, to use him sexually in ways even he cannot imagine, to compel him to dress as you desire whenever you wish, to shoe him the fullness of your control over him whenever he needs to feel it, for as long as you both shall live?”

My Queen’s answer:  “I, Mistress @*#@**, commit myself to you slave michael as your Dominant Mistress, Queen, and Superior to teach and train.  I promise to explore and adventure with you.  I will respect, trust, help, care, protect and take ownership of you.  I will treat you in everything as my inferior and will share my live with you.  I offer you my unwavering love, influence and control.  I will do for you everything that I can to make you a better slave and husband.  I will help you maintain purity by holding your key, through the best and worst of what is to come.  I lock you cage to symbolize our connection to one another as well as your submission to me.  I accept your key as it represents our trust in each other and your acknowledgement of my superiority and strength to lead us!

At this point, My Queen locked my cage on her penis.

Kikko then spoke a little more before she pronounced us Owner and slave, Wife and husband.  At the end of the ceremony, I kissed my Queen’s ass.

After the ceremony we took some pictures in Kikko’s throne room

 

About Priestess Kikko and contact info for her.

My Queen and I both found Kikko to be a lovely person and very competent.  She is a Domme in her own right and as mentioned her home is a treasure for BDSM enthusiasts.  The fact that she is also a legal marriage officiant in Nevada is a bonus and she specializes in all forms of weddings.  She can do a vanilla wedding but I think she prefers to do kinky weddings.  She is beautiful and has a great sense of humour.

This is her website for weddings:  https://bdsmthemeweddingslasvegas.com/

The wedding website has all the details as well as contact information.  I highly recommend her services if you are thinking about any type of wedding.  You will NOT be disappointed.

She is also a professional Domme and as mentioned has an incredible home and amazing selection of equipment:  Here is a link for her Dominatrix site https://www.mistresskikko.com/

Thanks for reading and I apologize for the length of this post.  I will be posting soon about our honeymoon in Hedonism.

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Just a short post–and I know it’s been awhile.  I admit to having some issues with this account, but I hopefully have solved most of them.

An update on the end of the year for us…  We both experienced some sickness–My Queen had pneumonia in November and I ended up with vertigo at some point towards the end of November.  However we are both now well and in two days will be travelling to Las Vegas to see the city and have our Femdom Wedding.  I plan to talk more about the venue and the ceremony afterwards–and hopefully include some pictures.  It is likely that will have to wait until we get back from our honeymoon.  We are travelling to Hedonism II after we return from Vegas.  We are excited as these are totally new experiences.  But life is about living and at times pushing boundaries.  So I’m getting ready to do some real pushing–or having my Queen push me.

In addition to our wedding we will do a few other fun things on our short stay in Vegas.  We are planning to visit the Hoover Dam and also the Grand Canyon.  We hope to see a show or two and just explore the city.   While neither of us are gamblers, I’m certain we will use some quarters and the slot machines…lol

On the orgasm front, I’m now at 279 days since my last orgasm (April 20, 2024).  My Queen is likely at 6 days…(I’d have to check the book)  She’s been very busy with work these past few weeks.  Her job requires her to get ahead before she leaves for holidays.  As such she has been burning the midnight oil and when she’s fatigued, sexy takes a back seat.  I’m pretty certain that relaxation and holidays will change that in a big way–so that’s another reason for my excitement.  lol

I hope everyone is well and that 2025 is a great year for all of you.  Stay safe!

 

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Well, it’s been a while coming, but we finally have our trip booked to Vegas for our Femdom wedding.  I’ve formally proposed and given her an opal ring.  Afterwards, we will be going to Hedonism in Jamaica for a honeymoon! Plans are still evolving, but our wedding officiant is booked and discussions have been taking place.  It is likely that my wife and Queen will be waiting for me at the altar.  We have discussed clothing, but don’t know yet what she will be wearing.  I’m certain it will be sexy and I hope somewhat revealing.  However what she wears is not my decision.  I had a sexy dress picked out, but my Queen didn’t like it.  lol  I will be wearing a collar and leash.  Our officiant has a submissive and that person will lead me into the ceremony and up to my Queen.  There, I will kneel before my Queen and the officiant.  I may be naked or wearing some sort of clothing–that is still to be decided.  I will kiss her feet and possibly the feet of the officiant.  The ceremony will start.  At some point I will be caged.  When we approach the end of the ceremony, I may be asked to kiss my Queen’s ass.  Again that is still in discussion.  Our vows are also being worked on. However as we have a few months, there is no immediate rush to hurry and get them completed.

My Queen is getting much more comfortable in her dominant role.  After much discussion she has decided with my input that punishment will be a part of our dynamic.  I honestly do my best to meet her every need and fulfill all her requests. Still I am not perfect (yet), so I have been spanked  each week for my failings.  While I am glad that my Queen is calling me to task, it is an unpleasant experience.  My Queen makes the punishment hurt! lol  Sunday, She had me uncaged and reading to her.  In the book I was reading the woman was discipling her slave and my Queen decided to get our punishment session out of the way.  As I stood to get into position for my spanking, my erection bobbled around.  I took 130 smacks and Angus was no longer erect when the session was over.  lol   My Queen found that amusing.  Punishment is important to me.  It really helps me to feel submissive–to drive my submissiveness if you like!

What else has changed?  Everyday I get up before my Queen and empty the dishwasher, make her coffee and tea and do some other chores to ease her life.  When she gets up, She can come downstairs and relax with her journal and meditation while enjoying her coffee.  My Queen is a coffee lover.  I make a large cup (26oz) and use a mix of coffees every morning.  We have about 10 different coffees to choose from.  She tells me what she wants the night before.  When she is seated and before she starts her meditation, I approach her and kneel before her.  I ask her what I can do to make her day better.  She will either tell me then and there or will send me a list later in the day.  Failure to prostrate myself before her results in at least 20 smacks so I am doing my best not to forget.

The other day she was wearing a lovely dress.  As we were watching television together, she told me to kneel in front of her.  She pulled up her dress and she wasn’t wearing panties (a huge kink and turn-on for me).

My Queen’s pussy just licked to orgasm!

“I need an orgasm!” she said.  Then she grabbed my head and pulled my face to her pussy.  Who cares what was on TV??  Not me, as I was in heaven. She actually came quickly and then we went back to watching television.  I didn’t even remove my pants or cage.  It’s been 110 days since my last orgasm.  But I have so much fun giving her orgasms that it just doesn’t matter.

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While I haven’t mentioned it in quite some time, we are still planning on having an FLR (Femdom) wedding. This will be a renewal of our vows, but the difference will be that I promise to obey and my Queen promises to accept my slavery and look after me…  We have only talked about it in generalities and no firm plans are in place yet.  We know where we want to go to have the ceremony (Vegas) and I will highlight that venue in a later post.  The beauty of the venue is that the marriage is legal–that is important to me. and that with prior arrangements, almost anything goes.  So I may be nude for some or all of the ceremony.  If any of my ideas are accepted, I might kiss my Queen’s ass or drink her urine as part of the ceremony.  But that is still to be determined.  Another thing that I am hoping to see happen while we are in Vegas is for my Queen to make use of the Cowboys4Angels gigolo service.

We often fantasize about another man or couple when we have sex.  Most often it’s another man and I think it would set our new marriage parameters off in the correct direction with a clear indication that my Queen’s happiness and satisfaction is the most important thing.  I would hope I’d be allowed in the room, but that would also be up to her.  I’m not sure she will go for this to be honest.  She may be content to keep this fantasy just that.  But I’m hoping that I can convince her to explore her pleasure in this way.  If it should happen, I do hope to be allowed to take pictures.  I expect I will be caged for the event so no orgasms will be expected for me.

Why do I want this??  First I really enjoy seeing my Queen experience pleasure.  She loves variety in everything she does–but hasn’t had any variety in the bedroom since meeting me.  We do all sorts of things, but it’s always just me.  I think she would enjoy a new experience.  When we were first dating, she found a pro-Domme and for one of my birthdays, she took me to her dungeon.  The two of them then proceeded to dominate me.  It was such an amazing gift that I’d like to give it back.  It also feeds my submissiveness.  Watching her experience pleasure with another man is very exciting and also a very submissive act.  I further imagine licking her pussy as she’s being fucked–even if we hire a cowboy, this is very unlikely to happen, but then it isn’t about me is it?  I would expect the cowboy to use a condom, but I fantasize that he doesn’t and he comes in and on her.  Then she makes me clean it up.  I clean up my own messes all the time now–just have never done another man’s clean-up.  Again that act is an exciting thought of submissiveness.  So if my Queen cucks me, it feeds my desire to see her pleased and also really feeds my submissive identity.