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As I begin this post it is Nov 21.  I have been caged since Sept. 27 a total of 55 days so far.  It is possible that we may set a new record (the old record is 96 days), but that is not a decision I will make.  It is the decision of my Queen.

For those of you who have read my blog for a long time, you may remember that in a previous incarnation I wrote about how my Queen had had an hysterectomy.  There were very good reasons for the surgery, but there has been an unfortunate consequence.  The surgery was about 6 years ago.  Prior to that time we engaged in PIV sex regularly–I didn’t orgasm without permission, but my Queen enjoyed being penetrated.  After a suitable recovery time, we started to engage in intercourse again–it didn’t go well.  I had to be extremely careful and we had to be in just the right position.  Gradually we tried less and less.  Then we started to use a dildo we have.  It is smaller than me in girth and length.  For a while, that seemed to do the trick.  Care still had to be used, but my Queen could enjoy herself. However even that toy soon became too much.  We’ve visited the doctor and he gave the stock answer that she needed more lube!  (bullshit)  Eventually I would carefully use a finger and only insert it a small amount.  One day I touched something that was hard and sharp.  Freaked me out.  Really freaked out my Queen.  We’ve been back to the surgeon and also to our family doctor.  These physicians confirmed the sharp item and it appears that a piece of mesh inserted into my Queen has formed some scar tissue and has worked through the walls of the vagina.  We are lucky to see still another specialist who deals with mesh problems.  Hopefully he will be able to repair this damage and we can resume penetrative sex.

Till then, I am living a virtual pussy free life.  I never penetrate my Queen and only use toys and my mouth on her.  On occasion,  she will have me carefully use a finger.  When we play I am often caged and sometimes am fully clothed.  Last time we played, I was nude though caged.  She had me lie on the bed with my head overhanging the edge.  She moved over my face and I proceeded to please her with my tongue.  At the same time she played with Angus until eventually I came while still in my cage.  By then, my Queen had had three orgasms and had gushed all over my face.  She then climbed off me and scooped up my cum with her fingers before feeding me my own slop.

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About 5 years ago, my Queen had a hysterectomy.  Her uterus was prolapsed and this was the treatment advised.  For a few months penetrative sex was not to happen as healing had to take place.  Then the day arrived where we could resume intercourse–it didn’t work as it had before.  Angus is quite thick and my Queen experienced all kinds of difficulty/pain when I entered her.  We’ve tried all sorts of things and she has seen the surgeon at least twice since then.  She uses a hormonal ring to try and help things.  We use lots of lube, but to this day, she has great difficulty accepting Angus.  We do have a few toys though.  Some are even bigger than Angus (both length and girth) while others are not.  Recently we decided to try and do “penis practice” daily or every second day at worse.

Penis practice??  This occurs in the evening when my Queen is going to bed.  I warm up two toys by leaving them in a pot of hot water for some time.  Then I take the skinniest one and lube it up before inserting it slowly and carefully into my Queen.  I try and move it in for it’s whole length though that doesn’t always happen.  If it’s not to uncomfortable, I will slowly and gently move it in and out a bit.  After about 10 minutes, I remove it slowly and insert the thicker one.  Much the same happens after it is inside her.  If she is feeling good, when I remove that one, she will have me remove the cage and insert Angus.  So far this has only happened once, but I was able to move reasonably vigorously that time.  Positioning was limited, but she enjoyed herself.  When she decided she’d had enough, she had me remove Angus and stroke him to orgasm in my hand.  I then cleaned my hand with my mouth–I am supposed to always drink my cum after I orgasm.

These are the two Dildoes we are using to hopefully reopen my Queen. The one on the left is a little shorter and skinnier than the one on the right. Both are far skinnier than Angus

 

The hope is that this regularity and consistent penetration will one day allow my Queen to experience aggressive penetration as she once enjoyed.  We’re also trying to see a different gynocologist for a second opinion.  The doctor who did the original surgery says that there shouldn’t be any issues–but then he’s not hurting his wife any time he penetrates her.

A side effect of this is that often when we have sex, she leaves me caged.  After all, Angus won’t be getting any use.  This excites me tremendously.  I so love to give her orgasms and despite getting all excited not be permitted to cum myself.  So in a small way this is a plus.  I think that even if we have success with this method, my Queen will leave me caged far more often when we have sex–and that’s a good thing!