As my Queen’s submissive/slave, things are changing.  Now years into this lifestyle, my Queen is really starting to embrace her role.  It has slowly become more pronounced over the years.  However recently with the planned wedding and lots of discussion, we’ve moved a lot further along this path.  For years my Queen has been reluctant to punish me for any annoyances I may cause her.  And while I don’t like punishment, I’ve always felt that if I do something to deserve it, I should receive it.  It helps to clean the slate and also helps to teach me how to act.  But the most important thing about punishment is the way it emphasizes my submission.  It helps me to feel her power.  If my Queen never uses her power, then it’s almost as if she doesn’t have any.  So for me, that is the main reason I embrace her punishments.

So for me a typical day now looks something like this.  In the mornings, I get up before my Queen (usually around 5:30 or 6:00).  She is very particular about her coffee, and I make her coffee (very strong and different blends in a 26 oz mug), tea (also in a 26 oz mug) and set up her breakfast dishes before she awakes.  I also empty the dishwasher, fill our water distiller, make ice in our icemaker.  When my Queen comes downstairs, I warm her coffee, and allow her to meditate for some time.  Then I kneel in front of her and ask how I can make her day better.  Failure to do this will result in a spanking in the near future.  This is new and is taking some getting used to.  Since I am up for 2 hours or more before I usually kneel in front of her, I sometimes forget.  The last time I forgot, it resulted in 85 extra spanks for that week’s punishment.  Yes, spanking has become the punishment of choice.

Shortly after this I return to the bedroom and make the bed.

After my obeisance, my Queen will send me a list of tasks for that particular day–it can be a long list and may not be possible to finish in that day, but it does mean I seldom have free time.  We go to the gym together and do our cardio before returning home to have breakfast.  Then we usually go to the gym separately the second time for our weight training. On my return from the gym, I eat my post workout and then commence to do whatever tasks she has set for me for the day.  If there are no kids around, I’m to dress as she has asked–naked with my cage and zapper on and one of my aprons.  If I’m cooking I’m also to wear my chef’s hat.

Preparing food for my Queen dressed as she requested.

At some point usually around 9:00, I am finished with my daily tasks.  At that point we will sit down together and relax while watching one of her favourite shows.

And that is my typical day now!  I am always trying to keep my Queen happy and make her life easier.  Because as the saying goes, “Happy Wife, Happy Life!”

Preparing food for my Queen

One of my kinks is Clothed Female naked male (CFnm).  In fact my car license plate has this as part of it’s lettering.  lol  My Queen is of course aware of this and my exhibitionist tendencies.  She decided I should have a costume I wear whenever we are home alone.  Now with a 22 year old son around, this isn’t as often as we would like, but whenever he’s gone, I’m dressed as she decided.  I’m supposed to be naked and wearing an apron.  At times I’m also required to wear a collar or add the zapper.  If she has me uncaged, I’m always supposed to have the zapper on.  I basically wear one of two aprons.  The one shown in these photos and another one with “Slave Boy” inscribed on it.

Curtsying to my Queen

Angus isn’t typically visible while wearing the aprons, but can easily be shown if requested by my Queen.  Regardless of whether or not I’m dressed as she requested (presence of son/children dependent), I work at making my Queen’s life easier.  We eat a lot of clean and non-processed food.  I cook for my Queen so she needn’t worry about that.  I’ll make her coffee/tea–and she’s very particular about how it’s made.  I do laundry–any ironing she needs I do as she hates to iron.  Dishes are another of my responsibilities.  I maintain the property outside as well.  Ultimately, I try and allow her time to relax and rejuvenate while I deal with all the things that need doing.  Sometimes despite my protests, my Queen will help and do certain tasks.  However she is getting better at allowing me to do the lion’s share of the work and in time she might not do anything at all.  We do have days where she does nothing around the house.  We have a cleaner who comes in once a week.  However if something needs cleaning and can’t wait, then I do whatever is needed.  It’s what a good slave will do!