As my Queen’s submissive/slave, things are changing. Now years into this lifestyle, my Queen is really starting to embrace her role. It has slowly become more pronounced over the years. However recently with the planned wedding and lots of discussion, we’ve moved a lot further along this path. For years my Queen has been reluctant to punish me for any annoyances I may cause her. And while I don’t like punishment, I’ve always felt that if I do something to deserve it, I should receive it. It helps to clean the slate and also helps to teach me how to act. But the most important thing about punishment is the way it emphasizes my submission. It helps me to feel her power. If my Queen never uses her power, then it’s almost as if she doesn’t have any. So for me, that is the main reason I embrace her punishments.
So for me a typical day now looks something like this. In the mornings, I get up before my Queen (usually around 5:30 or 6:00). She is very particular about her coffee, and I make her coffee (very strong and different blends in a 26 oz mug), tea (also in a 26 oz mug) and set up her breakfast dishes before she awakes. I also empty the dishwasher, fill our water distiller, make ice in our icemaker. When my Queen comes downstairs, I warm her coffee, and allow her to meditate for some time. Then I kneel in front of her and ask how I can make her day better. Failure to do this will result in a spanking in the near future. This is new and is taking some getting used to. Since I am up for 2 hours or more before I usually kneel in front of her, I sometimes forget. The last time I forgot, it resulted in 85 extra spanks for that week’s punishment. Yes, spanking has become the punishment of choice.
Shortly after this I return to the bedroom and make the bed.
After my obeisance, my Queen will send me a list of tasks for that particular day–it can be a long list and may not be possible to finish in that day, but it does mean I seldom have free time. We go to the gym together and do our cardio before returning home to have breakfast. Then we usually go to the gym separately the second time for our weight training. On my return from the gym, I eat my post workout and then commence to do whatever tasks she has set for me for the day. If there are no kids around, I’m to dress as she has asked–naked with my cage and zapper on and one of my aprons. If I’m cooking I’m also to wear my chef’s hat.
At some point usually around 9:00, I am finished with my daily tasks. At that point we will sit down together and relax while watching one of her favourite shows.
And that is my typical day now! I am always trying to keep my Queen happy and make her life easier. Because as the saying goes, “Happy Wife, Happy Life!”