About 5 years ago, my Queen had a hysterectomy. Her uterus was prolapsed and this was the treatment advised. For a few months penetrative sex was not to happen as healing had to take place. Then the day arrived where we could resume intercourse–it didn’t work as it had before. Angus is quite thick and my Queen experienced all kinds of difficulty/pain when I entered her. We’ve tried all sorts of things and she has seen the surgeon at least twice since then. She uses a hormonal ring to try and help things. We use lots of lube, but to this day, she has great difficulty accepting Angus. We do have a few toys though. Some are even bigger than Angus (both length and girth) while others are not. Recently we decided to try and do “penis practice” daily or every second day at worse.
Penis practice?? This occurs in the evening when my Queen is going to bed. I warm up two toys by leaving them in a pot of hot water for some time. Then I take the skinniest one and lube it up before inserting it slowly and carefully into my Queen. I try and move it in for it’s whole length though that doesn’t always happen. If it’s not to uncomfortable, I will slowly and gently move it in and out a bit. After about 10 minutes, I remove it slowly and insert the thicker one. Much the same happens after it is inside her. If she is feeling good, when I remove that one, she will have me remove the cage and insert Angus. So far this has only happened once, but I was able to move reasonably vigorously that time. Positioning was limited, but she enjoyed herself. When she decided she’d had enough, she had me remove Angus and stroke him to orgasm in my hand. I then cleaned my hand with my mouth–I am supposed to always drink my cum after I orgasm.
The hope is that this regularity and consistent penetration will one day allow my Queen to experience aggressive penetration as she once enjoyed. We’re also trying to see a different gynocologist for a second opinion. The doctor who did the original surgery says that there shouldn’t be any issues–but then he’s not hurting his wife any time he penetrates her.
A side effect of this is that often when we have sex, she leaves me caged. After all, Angus won’t be getting any use. This excites me tremendously. I so love to give her orgasms and despite getting all excited not be permitted to cum myself. So in a small way this is a plus. I think that even if we have success with this method, my Queen will leave me caged far more often when we have sex–and that’s a good thing!